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Plagiarism See the comments. What he said.... Make Women Female Again |
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Is this really a blog about plagiarism? No, the heading is actually more of a confession. How so? I came across a blog, written in May 2017, that really struck a chord and I wanted to once again publish it. What about it struck that chord? I read many blogs from submissives either lamenting or laughing at some of the moronic and/or rude and crude mail they get from so called Dominants. This lady really puts it in a nutshell in her own unique manner. It's intelligent, well written and accurate. It also addresses & dispels some other subjects. I think the submissive ladies on here will appreciate her wisdom. Kewl .... Let's have a look. Bombs away! And because I’ve been a submissive… and am now a bottom who enjoys pleasing her top… I want to debunk a few myths. I’ve often seen on people’s profiles and blogs complaining about the calibre of responses they receive from submissives. They lament that their messages are either ignored, or responded to with a tone which they would not expect from someone who calls themselves “submissive.” Apparently, this is not “submissive behaviour.” Now excuse me “Mr Dominant Stranger,” a submissive is not a species separate from human – a submissive IS a human being. A submissive is one half of a negotiated power exchange relationship. Until such time that she has found her complementary other half, she is a human being looking to be someone’s submissive. She has a submissive personality… an inherent longing to serve… a desire to please… but she wants to do all those things with HER dominant… not ALL dominants. When you message a submissive, she is, at that moment in time, simply a woman… she is not YOUR submissive. She does not owe you anything… she doesn’t even owe you a response… and if she does, you be grateful to her for her time… even if her response is “sorry, not interested.” And if she ignores you it’s because she’s made a decision that she’s not interested in you, and doesn’t have the time to field all the eleventy dozen messages she gets daily. She doesn’t owe you anything. And then there’s the classic one, where the entitled domly types complain that submissives have expectations… and then they spout the tired old trope that she is “topping from the bottom” with her “demands.” Oh no. A woman, who is not yet your submissive, tells you about her fantasies and desires…. I mean… how dare she!!! Amiright? This is not “topping from the bottom.” That phrase is a load of claptrap spouted by insecure doms who want to make submissive women feel guilty for having limits and desires. Until such time that a D/s dynamic has been negotiated, discussed, agreed, she is not YOUR submissive. She doesn’t owe you a thing. And establishing a bond of trust takes longer than the time it takes you to craft a message with unrealistic expectations to a random stranger. So stop with all this “unsubmissive behaviour” bullshit and start treating women with respect. Maybe then you will find someone who will be willing to show you what submissive behaviour really is. Oooo .... I like that. She has quite the talent for telling it like it is. Yeah,, she sure does. Sadly, some who read her thoughts will merely conclude .... "What a bitch!" Yeah,the exact types she is commenting about.... It's apparently hard for them to look in the mirror.... Make Women Female Again
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Now that is a well written, clear concise, four paragraphs of instruction for all wannabe Doms on this site. Such childish behavior is hard to modify. She compresses it nicely here " When you message a submissive, she is, at that moment in time, simply a woman… she is not YOUR submissive. She does not owe you anything… she doesn’t even owe you a response… and if she does, you be grateful to her for her time… even if her response is “sorry, not interested.” To all wannabe Doms, write this down and read it before you try to contact any advertised submissive. On the side Plzrmeister, how do you do that with the diff color writing?
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The men who message on this site are brutal. Most have no clue whatsoever. It's not always messages of demands, expectations, or rudeness (granted quite a few are), it's the simple inability to see anyone has human. She is right there. Men send messages that are awkward and inappropriate. Calling you baby, little one, blah blah blah, yet they have never even spoken to you. Just correspond like a basic human being with the IQ greater than Donald Trump. Many men on here are so incredibly two faced it is astounding. Many blog posts, and my own experiences with males on here, they will be kind and sweet to your face. They will accept your kindness and friendship, and then within seconds run to others and tell bullshit tales about you, to garner favour with that woman. There are very very few men of an integrity on this site. This is not sucking up, but I do find the males who inhabit the blogs to be a much higher calibre than some of the other sections of Alt. Overall there seems to be this presumption that if women are on here in any capacity, they are simply disposable. They have no feelings. They are nothing but eye candy to be used as fodder for the next piece of eye candy. We are of no substance and only of value if we are capitulating to their demands, or providing some spank bank material. It's as though we have no agency, we do not decide to be on cam or chat rooms for our own pleasure, but simply to be abused by them...until tomorrow when they come back and find another woman. Then they will say disgusting things about you, to make this new person feel better about themselves....then rinse and repeat the next day. I can't tell you how many times I have been in cam rooms and saw someone who I had chatted to many times, was always friendly with, and then they were saying the most horrendous things about me to someone else. Then they return to my cam show and say the same bullshit lines of what they perceive to be flattery and friendship. I see it happen in the chat rooms as well. Now I have been blessed with an amazing Sir who is above this intellectual and maturity level. I have also been fortunate enough to have encountered some wonderful individuals in the blogs, but overall I would say be very careful and make a lot of observations before you actually consider any type of relationship/friendship with anyone on here. That being said, when you find someone with a dose of integrity and intelligence hold on to them.  You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.
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To all wannabe Doms, write this down and read it before you try to contact any advertised submissive. That's pretty much exactly what I thought when I first read this. Hence why I wanted to republish it. I knew it would hit home with those that 'get it' ..... And I was hopeful many of the wannabes might pull their heads out. About the color(s). Above any comment box is an array of options .... B for bold, I for italicized, U for underlined, etc. Note there is a box with 'color' in it. When you click on 'color', an array of colors will appear. Pick the one you prefer and click on it. When you click on your preferred color, (let's use blue) the below will show up in the typing area. COLOR blue][/COLOR I deleted a [ at the front and a ] at the end. Place your cursor between the middle ] and [ and type away. Hopefully that made sense..... Indeed. Break a leg! Make Women Female Again
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You make some very valid points. I have very few dommes who contact me, and the ones that do it's pretty damn obvious they are men pretending to be women. So I have very little experience with dommes on here. The crazy is so real. Many of the people who do contact you are on the precipice of crazy. They can go from "OMG Serve me Bitch" to "You're fat, disgusting, a c*nt, etc" just cause you have rebuked them or ignored them. Then they will stalk you until you block them...then they create fake accounts. Sigh. You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.
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It's true for Dominants in general, not just the men. Good point. For sure .... This behavior is not sex specific. I'm glad you loved the post and I give 100% of the credit to the original blogger. It's a shame she is not still blogging. When contacting anybody for the first time, all those things should be established through a dialogue of mutual respect where both sides remain cordial. Exactly.... When I'm chatting with a new submissive, and trying to help her out, I always emphasize that ..... "You don't owe anybody anything except common courtesy and you only owe them that if they are extending that same common courtesy to you." Thanks for your comments! For sure and you take care too. Make Women Female Again
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Let's see if this works Thanx Plzr So it doesn't change till you post? I have to stop being this curious. Save it for the important stuff.
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You make some very valid points. I have very few dommes who contact me, and the ones that do it's pretty damn obvious they are men pretending to be women. So I have very little experience with dommes on here. The crazy is so real. Many of the people who do contact you are on the precipice of crazy. They can go from "OMG Serve me Bitch" to "You're fat, disgusting, a c*nt, etc" just cause you have rebuked them or ignored them. Then they will stalk you until you block them...then they create fake accounts. Sigh.
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Ideally grywolf Alt would allow us to have a button to block by IP. We would not have the capability to see the actual IP but Alt could block all the IPs that person uses. OMG that would be heaven. My Sir's ex who lives to stalk me and her evil BFF I could block the IPs they use and never ever have to deal with them again!!! OMG it would make Alt almost great. LOL. You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.
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1/9/2020 10:13 am |
There is an easiness to typing words on a keyboard. At that point in time she is just a woman and you are just someone on a computer . . . Dominance is not an entitlement. If you believe being dominant entitles you, you aren't a dominant, you're a misogynist.
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If you believe being dominant entitles you, you aren't a dominant, you're a misogynist. I couldn't agree with that more. Except that a misogynist is probably only the first word I'd call them. Go wash your mouth out with soap.... I'm out of soap. Make Women Female Again
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1/9/2020 10:49 am |
just doing some point collecting, thanks
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Yes! Thank you! A-men to all the comments, too. It would be so peacefull, tranquilo to just be treated as if i am a person.... Oooh, my!! That would be a novelty!! Someone who is interested in ME... With consistency, and not jumping from contact to contact, finding someone to F#ck... Thank you for reposting this! 
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1/9/2020 2:27 pm |
It's always good to find something that strikes a chord. That's why we're here, after all. (Or maybe you're here to be struck by a cord)
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