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Not a crash and burn..more like hitting the ejection button I know alot of people will say I'm alot like Julia Roberts in the run away bride movie I get going down relationship pathway...and then want to get off. Why?.. cause I'm not here to date...I could clearly date someone if i wanted to. Im here for the lifestyle. Sorry..said it I think guys get bashed alot for wanting kink first...but then again they want sex first too...the relationship then developes Seems like women want relationship first...and then you eventually may get to kink. This is the part where women accuse men of using them as a facilator for kink. Don't get me wrong im not a sex addict or geeking out on the lifestyle... But hello i am a guy.. You don't get into fantasy baseball to then do something completely different for weeks. Esp considering the main thing you have in common.. Is...fantasy baseball. Im not even suggesting one needs to be swinging off the chandeliers... But it would atleast be nice to have a fantasy draft. So yeah maybe im not a relationship guy....but it's sorta rude to throw around the title of fwb..I'm more than Maybe men and women process relationships differently? |
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6/10/2019 5:09 am |
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Injection. Placing something in another space, i.e. putting a needle in your arm in the vein. Ejection. Getting thrown out, i.e. ejecting from a jet with a flame out in a flat spin, like Top Gun..Just in case...
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It's dangerous making sweeping generalizations here. We're talking about human beings, and we're hard-wired to be unpredictable, erratic and even a little bit nuts.  I've known subbies who would bang/play with anyone just on general principle. Same way with some 'nilla gals. I've known Doms who were not interested in casual play but were looking for that someone special. More than a few 'nilla guys are the same way. Guys looking for kink before love: that's nothing new. It's all in the approach, I think. Within the lifestyle, there's this loud insistence on everything being about physical release and nothing more. Human beings are not wired that way in truth. Laizze les bons temps roulez!
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6/10/2019 11:59 am |
Sure its a generalization based on my experiences though. What im saying is i was unhappy in my Last pseudo relation.. Where the play was little and there was alot of relationship going on ( including the angry emails).. So this time around i assumed getting with a Domme that is in groups,is active etc would atleast equate some form of play..getting out more,being more active in the local scene.. But nope..It's the same ole same ole...It's like the very definition of insanity..doing the same thing and expecting different results.. So far no form of kink what so ever...and she wants to vanilla date.. So yeahh..maybe I'm not relationship material.. Or their definition of it
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