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HetFlexK 51M
157 posts
8/10/2022 12:44 am
knowing limitations

As I heal, grow stronger, and become more active I can feel myself maybe stressing a bit too much about helping out around the house. I want so badly to be useful again; to earn my keep, so to speak. Before the accident I could be relied upon to do damn near everything that my sex slave ChrisSwallows is currently forced to do himself, because I am just plain physically incapable. I ask for projects that might better fit my condition, and he gives me a few, but I think he consistently underestimates my ability. He’s also super protective of me, which I can’t and won’t complain about. I want to be challenged because I think that is good physical therapy, and I usually know my limits. I work as hard as I can for as long as I am able, and then for a couple of days I pay for it in aches and pains. Lately, the aches and pains portion has been less severe, and lasted half the time it did before. There’s no denying I’m making progress.



I’ve always been very in touch with my body and its limitations. When the doctor told me he wasn’t really concerned about whether or not I could make it to physical<b> therapy </font></b>sessions, he said he fully trusted I knew how to be cautious and take care of myself. What he felt he needed to say to others, didn’t need to be said to me. It helped ease my mind a great deal, and made me feel like I didn’t need to rush to meet some requirements on a progress report or whatever. Yes, it’s nice to have a professional examine and give advice, but to be truly in tune with your own body is the most beneficial thing of all. And being honest about your limitations is just a smart thing to do.

So for the near future I will continue to mow the lawn, shovel gravel, lug debris to the trailer to later be taken to the dump and things of that nature. No heavy lifting yet, but at least I am not completely useless. That, my friends, is a good start.


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