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Blogs > HetFlexK > True Hetero-Flexible Tales

HetFlexK 51M
157 posts
1/26/2024 9:49 am
boundary pushers
There is a vast difference between pushing boundaries and ignoring them. If a massage of mine says he is not into ____ for whatever reason, I steer clear of that area or activity. That doesn’t mean I stop trying to be erotic, or get him turned on, I just do so while respecting his boundaries.

I once told a I had zero desire to kiss. I didn’t hint, I flat out told him I did not do this with . Moments later he was pulling at my head, mouth open, trying to get me to lock lips with him. During that session I actually became angry, and almost let it ruin the moment. What part of NO did he not understand?

There is a I’ve known for a few years now, who likes to take vids and pics, and when we first started seeing each other I allowed it. Eventually I drew the line and said I didn’t want to anymore. He seemed to respect my decision, but over the years has continued to ask me if I would do it again. I politely and firmly tell him I am still not interested, but time goes by and he asks again. Somehow I guess I am not communicating clearly?

I’ve no idea why people can’t take NO for an answer, or why they feel the need to push boundaries and<b> limits. </font></b>Maybe they’re just being selfish, or the only excitement they get is from breaking rules? I’m just tired of refusing the same guys the same activities they already know I don’t participate in.

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