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Blogs > HetFlexK > True Hetero-Flexible Tales

HetFlexK 51M
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4/20/2024 12:31 pm
what is the correlation?
Gay men on the hookup site I belong to seem lazy, but are they also confused? I can’t tell you the number of guys who send me nothing more than “hey”, “sup” or some variation of a single word greeting, accompanied by a photograph. Sometimes the picture is of their entire body, but most of the time it’s either dick or ass. Now I never say on my profile that I’m looking for a cock to suck, get fucked by, or play with in general so pictures of those confound me. If you’re offering me your ass, if you’re saying you are a bottom and asking to get fucked, why include a photo of your penis? Is there some confusion on your part?

Just last night some guy sent me a message saying he was a bottom, looking to get fucked in the ass, but included a picture of his cock. He wrote; “I am all cleaned and prepped, ready to get fucked” so I sent a sarcastic reply back, asking him how it was going to be physically possible for me to penetrate his “clean and prepped” dick with mine? I’m not stupid, I know what was being communicated, I just don’t understand the correlation.

I’m not the only person who thinks this is strange. I see quite a few posts on the site that mention the phenomenon. It would stand to reason that a person sucking cock would, at the very least, post a photo of their mouth for others to see. If you are offering your mouth, show it to us! The same should go without saying for the men who want to bottom, or get fucked in the ass. If you want me to penetrate your anus, show it to me, so I know if I am going to be interested when the time comes. When you’re trying to sell a car you don’t advertise with a picture of the steering wheel, do you? Maybe it would be part of a larger collection, but the main eye-catcher should be more appealing and direct, right? That’s why people in real estate put a picture of the house for everyone to see, not the basement. Well, they do that if they want to sell the place, and since trying to hook up with another person is a different kind of transaction it makes sense to go about it in a sensible way. Or maybe that’s just me.

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