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Blogs > Tiger5549 > Tiger's Tale

Tiger5549 65M
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6/27/2013 10:51 am
Missed opportunity.

Ever tried to make a bottom into a submissive. Just can’t be done. Least I couldn’t do it when I wanted to.

Someone I thought might be the sub of my life turns out to be a wonderful bottom when we play, but just not submissive r/t, despite her declaration otherwise. I clung to hope for the longest, believing her to be the perfect sub, and only accepted the relationship after the realization.

Oh, she wants to be of service, but just wants to have too much control. She’ll cook, but wants to plan the meal rather. She’ll ride in the passenger seat, but wants to control the trip. She’ll submit to playing at a local event, but wants to control what we do and with whom.

Nothing wrong with that, of course, as that’s just who she is, but what do I do? Linger around hoping she’ll change? Accept what is and enjoy her as much as possible? Get out of Dodge and spend my time and effort on more fruitful endeavors?

I suspect acceptance is in the immediate future, and long term it’ll depend upon what other opportunities arise. Gosh, I really would have loved to have grown older with this person submitting to me. Such is life.


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