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New guys have it tough. I'm still struggling in the local community to fit in. Everyone's friendly and says hello, but then joins their firends and I'm left alone. I know "playing" and such requires a lot of trust and knowledge of the other, but I'm just trying to make friends. I think maybe those in the community focus so much on waiting until trust is earned that we don't step out on faith. Playing, giving personal information - I understand. But I think we lose a lot of good friends by not joining a newbie at a table and getting to know them. I've spent too much time sitting alone, unspoken to, to want to attend munches and other events and be lonely in a croud. I've made just a few friends and I hope they'll help me fit in, but it hasn't happened yet, and may never. I've been a loner all my life, and will die before long knowing that I've killed more people than I've been close to. I thought the lifestyle community was where I'd be accepted, but I doubt I have the social skills to allow others to accelt me. |
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