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Blogs > Tiger5549 > Tiger's Tale

Tiger5549 65M
8 posts
1/23/2014 11:16 am
Hmm, can a Dom be submissive?

I'm a Dom. I take the lead, the power, the responsibility. I prefer to thank, though, that I'm a nice guy, and doggone it, that let's me be taken advantage of. Makes me wonder.

Certainly I want to be protective, facilitate growth, and make happy those I care about. Sometimes that means sacrificing or at least weakening the D/s relationship. I tend to lean too much towards giving freedom than maintaining control, even when my best judgement dictates otherwise.

Do you let a sub make her mistakes, even when you anticipate them? Do you exercise control even when it makes her unhappy? Of course the answer is somewhere between the two extremes, but it is a difficult issue.

MSV2U 61F
83 posts
6/28/2019 11:31 am

 I agree with both of you. I am a strong Domme but often too nice.


Plzrmeister 67M  
10487 posts
1/23/2014 11:36 am

 There are those that rule with an iron fist, beat on their chests and take an 'Off with their heads' approach. There are those that don't.

Don't sweat it. Trying to be someone you're not or a type of Dominant that you're not is an exercise in futility. Each D/s relationship will fall into the place it's supposed to with the appropriate dynamic that satisfies both parties. No two will be the same.

Your mileage may vary... G
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