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open relationships; a random remembrance For most of my adult life I have been romantically<b> monogamous </font></b>but sexually open to much more. I’ve always been happy to share the flesh and holes of the one I love with others, but not their heart. So when I talk about an “open” relationship, those are the basic parameters. When I am in a romantic relationship the two things I insist upon are honesty and loyalty. If I can be assured those things are present, just about anything you can imagine is possible, and for me that has invariably led to seeking and maintaining (sexually) open relationships. To further clarify; my intent and desire is to share the one I love with others, but I myself do not have a wandering cock. Once in that serious, committed love relationship I am fully “all about” that person on every level, so other flesh and holes might look appetizing but I rarely have a hunger for them. I want the one I love to know how much I love her, and that extends to letting her take pleasure in / from others. It has almost always been that way, including the one time I was married, and has extended all the way into the relationship I am currently in with eve. I thoroughly enjoy and get off on watching my sex partner get carnal with others, and the only stipulations have been that meetings of the flesh never be kept secret, and that I be involved as often as possible. This agreement has led to a wonderful, rocky, complicated but undeniably amazing life. At the height of my “swinging” days I took my girlfriend to adult theaters and lined up men to aggressively fuck her ass while I enjoyed her mouth, or simply kept the line moving and made sure everyone was respectful, wearing a condom, etc. We made our way through the actual swingers clubs (in Oregon and a few other states), filmed group sex scenes, and remained open and uninhibited during our many trips around the country for business and pleasure. There was absolutely no jealousy, no apprehension, no fear, just a complete lack of guilt or inhibition to drive us toward the next moment. We did publicly what people are afraid to talk about privately, and did so with wild yet honest abandon. The lowest point came when that very same love of my life took to meeting a specific person on a regular basis, without including me, and when I expressed my discomfort and unhappiness about it her reply was that she would, “…fuck whoever I want, whenever I want”. As low points go, it was a big one at the time, but looking back at the experience in its entirety I can say it was merely a bump in an otherwise smooth road. If one were to try and quantify, I’d say we spent over 80 / eighty percent of the time happy, healthy and completely convinced there was no better way to live. Though I say eve and I are in an open relationship like the one I described, or have at least dabbled in the lifestyle, nothing like that has happened for quite some time, and not just because of the pandemic. Unreliable people have always been a big deal but our experiences over the last few years have brought us one disappointment after another. Yes, there were some fantastic shared moments but they seem like years ago, and in fact they were. There’s no telling what sort of mischief we might get up to again in the future, but one thing is certain; I haven’t soured on the concept of open sexual relationships. |
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