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Blogs > HetFlex_K > Heteroflexible K

HetFlex_K 51M
159 posts
10/6/2021 6:09 pm
eek, a penis!
I am shocked by the stigma still attached male male sexual interactions. Guys answering my personal ad were still saying things like “I’ve never done anything with a man before”, or marveling at the size and beauty of my cock while admitting at the time they are nervous do anything with it. Some of the things they say are tinged with guilt, and they haven’t even done anything yet except think about it. In the year 2021, when so much is open and out there for people enjoy, it seems silly and ridiculous be anything but genuinely curious, and a tad bit aroused. Alas, that is definitely not the case. The majority are still scared of touching, tasting, or fondling a penis, or even admitting they want to. Crazy stuff.

I should note that the majority of men expressing hesitation and worry are around my age, which means they grew with that stigma heavily held in place. Being gay, or doing anything intimate with another man was always spoken of with intense derision. Time has passed and the more we are honest with ourselves the more we see that nearly everyone is bisexual, or at least has tendencies, but those who have been alive for a few decades have that indoctrination fight through. I never felt any guilt, but maybe some regret. I didn’t like that I was “wasting” my sexual energy and desire men when I wanted be doing things with women, but a opportunistic predator type my appetite ruled out. At least I can say I was able to partake and fully enjoy myself without the need to hide what I was doing, or who I was doing it with. I didn’t have to lie to myself, or others, nor was I battling to control those<b> urges. </font></b>No deity was judging , and I really didn’t care if the next door neighbors were, so I have always been comfortable with simply being sexual. It’s never really mattered , who took my cock and load, long I was in charge and having a good time.

The penis is not dirty, or a secret. It is not an evil piece of flesh, it’s just another body part. I can see still attaching a stigma anal , since it can potentially be dirty, but touching a penis is really no different than holding a hand, stroking a chest, rubbing a neck. All feel good, and that’s all that should matter.

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