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preconceived notions Despite the fact that the world has gone hysterically p.c. (politically correct) I find some people still hold the most fundamentally flawed preconceived notions. The idea that a man or woman wearing clothing not traditionally made for their gender is homosexual should now be considered silly and outdated. Plenty of men who identify as heterosexual have donned a skirt, pair of panties, or even worn stockings and a garter. We all ought to realize by now that the lines between straight and gay aren’t just blurred, they are so numerous as to be other-dimensional. Gender can now be fluid, and if you want to make up a pronoun to call yourself you can expect wide acceptance of that in certain corners. But there are still those who are not going with the flow, who seem to be incapable of “getting with the times”. I’ve been changing my profile on the gay hookup site Sniffies pretty regularly now, mainly because I’m bored with the social experiment I have been fooling around with. The same people pop up in the same areas of the city day after day, and for the most part the things they are into aren’t that interesting anymore. At first I was fascinated by the glut, then appalled by the recklessness, but now I’m just left hoping for some rare treat to emerge and dazzle me. That is why on Monday you might find me with a picture of my cock posted, inquiring about slaves, but by Thursday it’s my ass showing and I’m asking for someone to break me in real soft and gentle. The<b> responses </font></b>have become predictable, or predictably absent when I say I’m seeking a certain thing. The preponderance of bottoms on the site looking for dick has been observed by many a frustrated Top, and I concur with the notion that there are more holes than cocks in and around Portland. Which leads me to a recent interaction with a fellow who had posted a photo of himself in panties. It was a full blown cross dressing moment he was sharing, illustrating that he was bottom and a sissy. When I sent him a message I had a photo of my ass as my profile picture, and in the body of my “about me” section I stated I was seeking a certain kind of man to take my anal virginity. Let me assure you, I’ve been fucked before, so this was not literally going to happen. There was no harm in seeking the kind of soul that might take it slow and easy on a first-timer though, so I kept my mind open and communicated with anyone that sent a message of interest. Again; I never made plans I didn’t intend to keep, or misled anyone about anything, we just traded messages and perhaps photos. The conversations were more exploratory than anything else. The photo this man had posted of himself, wearing panties, was quite attractive so I sent him a message. His immediate reply was that he did not have any interest in a fellow sissy. Now the picture of my ass did not include any feminine garments, nor was my photo particularly femme in nature, but it did mention in my “about me” section that I could cross dress, just that I was not passable. This guy obviously had me pegged as “just like him” and was clearly not into getting fucked by himself. I sent a message back, explaining that just because I occasionally put on panties or donned a dress didn’t make me in any way, shape or form a fellow sissy he blocked me from any further communication. What do you do with that except throw up your hands in frustration and then move on? There is a term I’ve never used; verse or versatile. To me that means you’re just as likely to take it in the ass as you are to give it. You’re versatile, and not stuck in one frame of mind. It’s always been strange for me to see a man with a gorgeous body and huge cock in a submissive position or role, so I do understand preconceived notions, and I’m just as guilty of holding onto some antiquated ones as other people are, even at this time in history. Everyone and everything is supposed to be acceptable and accepted, but that doesn’t mean we can just instantly cleanse our prejudices from our souls. It takes time, and for some of us it never really happens. I have had to work hard at this, and admit I still fail during certain circumstances, but at least I am trying. Navigating gender and sexuality right now might be difficult or even silly for some, but you either have to go along or be pushed to the side, maybe even buried. Clinging to your preconceived notions won’t help. |
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