Blog : Fake Doms (Oh c'mon, did you just notice?)

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7/3/2014 1:29 am

Fake Doms (Oh c'mon, did you just notice?)

What constitutes a "dom"?
From my experience, a lot of guys confuse being dominant with being domineering, or failing that, aggressive, demanding, self aggrandizing or just plain rude. For example, I didn't insult someone you care about without having met them, so what makes you think doing the same to me is OK?
Do you have self esteem issues? Is it really necessary to use capital letters when referring to yourself and your magnetism?
Is it really necessary to address me as "Slut", "", "Cunt" etc? Once I've decided to give you the right to choose on my behalf you can call me whatever you like. Until then it just sounds like you don't like women.
On that note, don't tell me I'm not that good looking unless you're absolutely fucken lush. If you're a fat, balding social inadequate you should mind that old line about glass houses and stones.
And why is it you don't want me knowing your phone number? I read that as "married guy".

Now I'm just voicing an opinion here, and opinions are like arseholes in that everybody has one, but it seems that the only way to be a true Dom is to be the sort of person girls (or indeed boys) obey because they can't help it. To have the sort of charisma that makes me wanna do as I'm told cos I feel good doing it, and you just make me want to because your approval is better than air. You don't need to be loud, rich, experienced or good looking. You don't even need to identify as a Dom. If you've got that way about you I'm on my knees begging to be allowed to do what you want.

A very close friend of mine fits that bill, to the extent that I'd have been happy to let him kill me if it would have got him off.

Compared to that kind of unassuming, modest brilliance, most people couldn't dominate their way out of a paper bag.

One final word of advice. I'm not your slave yet. And the sooner you realise that, the sooner I might end up being your slave.

Ooooohhhhyesss 67M

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7/2/2016 8:22 pm

"...could only dominate a pizza" ooh, I like that!

Now on to Sara's note

If you are into math based guesses, consider this statistic:

10 times the number of men as women on this site.

It would seem to me that there are probably an equal number of men and women that are actually suited for the lifestyle. That means you've probably got a 1 in 10 chance with the guy being "real." Now think back over the guys...what's the ratio that you've observed?


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