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What's in it for me? I often get contacted by couples who want me to join them. I have been known to play with 'proper' couples but my preference for a threesome is for three individuals. I've experienced issues before with couples where one half is clearly only going along with it to please (or try not to lose) the other, where one gets jealous half way through or it's obvious the relationship is fundamentally broken and it all gets awkward as they start arguing about who empties the dishwasher more or about him not taking the rubbish out the night before. Playing with separates seems simpler somehow. Often these emails received from couples fail to sell the experience to me at all. A recent example was a couple who wanted me join them for their first threesome. Again, my preference is generally not for those without experience but it can be entertaining to give someone their first. This couple were keen to have the additional girl to go down on her while he watched. Nothing wrong with that. But there followed a great long list of exclusions. No kissing. He wasn't allowed to touch me. She would let me touch her but was not going to reciprocate. I was to leave before they fucked. In essence, I was to turn up, make her come and then go home again. That's not really a threesome in my view and I was left wondering why they thought this would be of interest to me. Are you interested when it's all one sided? |
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Sounds like they need a fee for service sort of service, like ordering onion rings and a burger, hold the mayo, no onions, only 1 pickle extra ketchup 
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I had a threesome only once, and it was just as one sided as you say. Apart from the boost to my then youthful ego, it didn't do a lot for me.
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I've had a couple of threesomes many a decade ago and there were always a few rules we set before the evening began. It was fun but I must admit I was just interested in one partner so I was the one being selfish.
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I've had a couple of threesomes many a decade ago and there were always a few rules we set before the evening began. It was fun but I must admit I was just interested in one partner so I was the one being selfish.
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i`m not talking from experiance,but why would anyone be interesting in meeting without mutual pleasure
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i`m not talking from experiance,but why would anyone be interesting in meeting without mutual pleasure
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Doesn't sound like much fun. I mean being shown the door BEFORE the intercourse (I mean main course)! I suspect you are right about many threesomes being the last resort of a failing relationship. But I'd be happy to be proved wrong! Anybody?  Anybody??? 
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Doesn't sound like much fun. I mean being shown the door BEFORE the intercourse (I mean main course)! I suspect you are right about many threesomes being the last resort of a failing relationship. But I'd be happy to be proved wrong! Anybody? Anybody???
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Hmm....having done a relatively few of these I can honestly say I don't think I have EVER felt all 3 people wanted to be there.... And yes the list or rider lol was almost endless... Apart from one couple where the female did contact me afterwards and wanted me to ' get her a domme ' lol...I mean I usually carry a couple around with me but wouldn't you know it that day......duh...
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Well if deafening silence counts as being inundated then, Yup? I;m drowning in offers!
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Interestingly being the 'third' one has never appealed to me. It just goes with my princess alterego that I like to be the alpha woman (dominant) in a threesome setting. It isn't to say that I would be any more superior when it comes to pleasure. If anything with both girls who we have played with their pleasure (and pain  ) was my main aim. Yes, they earned my trust (hence there was no jealousy which I originally thought there might be) and I/we allowed them to enter our somewhat sacred bubble but my main aim was to ensure that they enjoyed the experience as much as possible as if I wanted to share our special (or what I thought is special) bond. Not sure if it makes any sense but for me honouring and respecting the other is important. However cliched it may sound but they had decided to give the gift of their submission to us so we ought to cherish it. Quite frankly you are a way above what was suggested to you. And if in purely play terms I could imagine three individuals getting together working well. I would have probably considered something similar before meeting my Dom x
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Interestingly being the 'third' one has never appealed to me. It just goes with my princess alterego that I like to be the alpha woman (dominant) in a threesome setting. It isn't to say that I would be any more superior when it comes to pleasure. If anything with both girls who we have played with their pleasure (and pain ) was my main aim. Yes, they earned my trust (hence there was no jealousy which I originally thought there might be) and I/we allowed them to enter our somewhat sacred bubble but my main aim was to ensure that they enjoyed the experience as much as possible as if I wanted to share our special (or what I thought is special) bond. Not sure if it makes any sense but for me honouring and respecting the other is important. However cliched it may sound but they had decided to give the gift of their submission to us so we ought to cherish it. Quite frankly you are a way above what was suggested to you. And if in purely play terms I could imagine three individuals getting together working well. I would have probably considered something similar before meeting my Dom x
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Well if deafening silence counts as being inundated then, Yup? I;m drowning in offers!
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