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Duties of a Junior Partner Duties of a Junior Partner Women's Libbers and some dommes won't like this post. If you look at the top of your screen, you'll see a "Back" button. Please feel free to use it. A married male friend of mine was asking me for ways he could try to re-ignite things in the bedroom with his wife. Apparently her appetite for sex has dropped off significantly over the course of their marriage. She also almost never gives oral sex, either as part of foreplay for intercourse or as a separate activity. I couldn't believe my ears! Before I go any further, let me clarify a few things, They do not have , by mutual choice. She is not of an age for perimenopause, and as far as I know she is physically, mentally, and emotionally healthy. Unlike many couples these days, he works and she doesn't. This is a major thing to me. Basically, her JOB is to be a wife, and her paycheck comes in the form of a paid mortgage, paid utilities, a car with gas/insurance/maintenance, medical/dental/vision benefits, food in the pantry, clothes in her closet, jewelry, her "fun money," and more. That is her pay for being a stay-at-home wife. She is basically the Junior Partner in a family firm. He is expected to perform certain tasks as the Senior Partner, and she has certain duties as the Junior Partner. Her duties as the Junior Partner include: * Preparing meals -- 22 per week (2 per day for 2 people during the week, 3 per day for 2 people on the weekends, minus however many times they eat out, or he fires up the grill, etc). * Shopping * Laundry (although I understand he helps with this) * Housekeeping (ditto) From what I understand, she does decently well at these aspects. But to me, she has another duty that is neglecting. Yes, I'm talking about sex. It should be a pleasure and not a duty, but she still has a duty to provide it and to do her best at it. And no, I'm not talking about every day. There will be days when she (or he) will be too tired, not feel well, be emotionally distraught, or whatever, but those should be the exceptions to the rule. Honey, let me tell you, if you've been rocking his world on a regular basis and you tell him sincerely, "Not tonight, honey, I don't feel well," most guys will not only accept that but will try to do whatever they can to take care of you and make you feel better! Ladies, look around. How many times have we seen a couple stay together for years, even decades, and suddenly he dumps her for a younger model? So often that it has become a stereotype, a bad cliche! In the cases where that happens, do you think he's got a satisfying sex life at home? Me, either. What about oral sex? It wasn't exactly a scientific study, but most of the guys I've talked to have said that if they had to choose the most loving physical act, it would be having their woman go down on them. I know some women have legitimate physical reasons for not sucking their man's cock. Maybe they have a strong gag reflex, or TMJ, or some other issue, but almost all of these can be worked around or can be improved with practice. I promise you, he will be HAPPY to let you practice as much as you want! And please, finish what you start. Unless you're doing it as a form of foreplay to lead into other things, don't stop worshiping that cock until Communion is over, if you know what I mean. Women who stop before he cums, or who let him cum but then spit it out, give the rest of us a bad name. If you absolutely cannot stand the taste or the consistency, pull back as soon as you feel him starting to spurt and smile up at him as you take his cum on your face, your chest, or where ever. I've never yet heard a man complain about his woman giving him that special smile as she rubs his cum into her face or neck or breasts, and I don't expect I ever will. But whatever you do, please don't spit it out, or at least don't let him know it if you do. Spitters are quitters in my book, plus to some guys (and girls, too) it is a very primal form of rejection of them at one of their most intimate and vulnerable moments. Presumably you care about this man, so why would you want to hurt him like that? Some women use their periods as a reason not to have sex. Personally, I've always been of the, "put a dark towel under you and consider it extra lubricant" school of thought, but that's just me. And yes, I know sometimes our periods can leave us not feeling well physically or emotionally, and sometimes it can be hard to feel sexy during that time. Those aspects I've already talked about. I know that some guys are super squeamish about things like sex during a period. I used to date a guy like that. As turned off as he was by that idea, he had no qualms at all about being in my mouth during my period, and I'll bet yours won't either! Now, I don't want to hear about how I'm betraying women with these comments, or how I'm setting things back to the 1950's (were you honestly old enough during the 50's to be aware of women's roles at that time?), or anything else like it. These are my opinions concerning what someone should do when someone else is providing ALL of their basic needs and several luxuries for them to let that person know that you appreciate all that they do for you. |
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hello owned one , very nice post and I comment you for the "guts " ! I don't think you will find many libbers on here howling at your perceived traitorous act,,,,,  it shows a clear logic and a fair and loving mindset that is Always welcome in the company of fellow intellectuals . be good M
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well written post owned one and alot of good points which U thunk both males and females will agree with and as the previous poster has said I too dont think there will be to many women linners on here  .and you are right about most males will do whatever they can to make sure their partner is feeling the best they can be by use of cuddles etc and also helping out with every day things ps I along with many other males enjoy having their cock sucked as I suspect many women enjoy feeling their partners tongue on their pussy  PSUK " Its better to burn out than fade away "
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5/10/2018 11:05 pm |
I Love your blog...you are extremely talented...very Sensual and Hott
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I'm not married, but I have had a few longterm, live in situations, and I have felt.. the moment "when the love ran out.." When people were going through the motions.. Not attentive to details anymore.. knows all of your stories.. but "Never" really understood why they matter or care to learn more.. to "self involved" to contribute to the relationship.. With children involved.. Perhaps I would have , or she would have went the extra mile. and figured out how to keep it fresh.. Alive.. a REAL loving relationship. Without children.. it was easier to admit defeat. (Relationship Wise) Blow Jobs, and the lack there of.. played prominently.. even though "All" of my grrls professed to "Loving" to give them..
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