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Cinderella1988 36F
28 posts
7/17/2019 10:57 am
so long


well i guess whoever runs alt is the same people who run tumblr, and they want it to die

used to be real life girls like me who drive interest to this place would get free gold memberships - now we don't

then last night, i learn that i'll have to spend "points" just to ANSWER IM chats. Eventually i'll be out of points. And then i'll have to ... what? b uy points? b uy a membership?

LLLLLLLLLL OOOOOOOOOOO LLLLLLLLLLLLLL

if the hit/miss ratio on good IM chats to shitty terrible useless ones wasn't like 1 to 99, i MIGHT stick around

But what? i'm gonna b uy points so i can have 99 inane chats with dumbass doms just i can have 1 good chat?

Nope.

Nope nope nope.

So i guess i am done here. Farewell alt. i hope your business model continues to grow as you throw roadblocks up for the unicorns like me.

lol

lolololololol

Cinderella1988 36F
7 posts
7/17/2019 10:57 am

commenting here because i have to lol

amateurs took over around here or something


ohioeagle 74M
2057 posts
7/17/2019 11:06 am

Got on IM this morning and tried to chat ..... It said I had 5 chats left but a screen popped up to use points to chat ...... Guess youre right about that change. .... Wrote alt help center waiting on a reply ...... Not holding my breath


DancingDom 74M
22476 posts
7/17/2019 11:40 am

Most of the good folks have been blogging as a means of communication for years. Most do not have gold, free or otherwise. They use the private message blog for getting information and listing profile information. then they may wonder off to other place to get connected. The alt system is broken, ruined by greed or they simply want it to fail and consolidate into the Local Fetish Fans site, which it was originally spun off from in the first place.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


EasyRider316 62M

7/17/2019 11:52 am

I've been burning points the last two days and never get a reply, it's not even showing that the message was delivered. Years ago I used to try to use this site to find bondage models. It was bad back then, it's worse now.


ImZZ 66M

7/17/2019 12:28 pm

KUDO's to you! You have said things that many of us have had to endure with this SHITTY ASS, LAME, MOTHERFUCKING site since its inception! I left this site over a yr ago, why I returned? I thought it changed well, it did. For the WORSE!

I am on FETLIFE, and with the minor difference of no IM there, it is a FAR superior site to meet and enjoy friend, a fellow pervs. Should you ever go there, look me up. I'm ZZYZZYXXX there............Take care, be safe!


olderdaddy_63 68M

7/17/2019 1:56 pm

AdultFriendFinder is just as bad. The entire network is shit anymore


jdmhab 71M
1234 posts
7/17/2019 2:28 pm

Most of you all probably know this but the 3 dots on the upper left hand of the main page keep changing your status to ' busy ' if you look at another page on the site and your IMs are cancelled both ways . There's a thing drops that you have to keep sliding to the left to get it to work. It's garbage.


TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
7/17/2019 4:02 pm

    Quoting Cinderella1988:
    commenting here because i have to lol

    amateurs took over around here or something
If amateurs were running it, it would work a lot better!

I fear the accountants are in charge!

Best of luck with wherever you land.


LovingMasterIN 41M

7/17/2019 4:18 pm

Years ago, Yahoo was in a class action lawsuit because they ran a dating service and offered free membership for women while men had to pay. The men paid only to discover that the vast majority of the women were only wanting to chat and had no interest in a relationship.

I'm guessing that is why free membership for women died out across pretty much all platforms.

Not sure what the solution is. I understand why offering free membership to women would be a good business model, but then it opens the platform up for the same kind of abuse, not to mention scammers.


xquzmecunts 49M
12 posts
7/17/2019 10:52 pm

So true


ControlFrkNY 46M
18 posts
8/1/2019 8:52 pm

5 chats a day worked well. Definitely a slow death


Ds_seek_sub_slav 63M/26F
1624 posts
11/30/2019 1:51 am

We would like to talk with you. Yes IM sucks! Better IMs out there. Hang outs is one. Become part of our friends network and get that google address. We have big plans for you!



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