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rosaenaluin 65F
10128 posts
4/6/2017 4:11 am
escapism


For most people on here, ALT is just a way to escape the hassle of the day, with the boss or the wife, or what not....
Just a way to live for a very short time in a fantasy, in wich they RULE, not matter what...

All fantasialand, that is why so many men put you on their hotlist, without even looking if there is a match..... or if it is even logical what they are doing....

because the only norm they use, is do you, somehow, fit their fantasy? Do you or your writings stimulate, trigger their fantasy in some way?

Because their whole and only purpose here, is ESCAPISM from their pathetic little boring lifes...

They are in no way, shape or form ever capable of BEING something even close to dominance...or submission, ...... only in their fantasy.....
they fantasise about it and that is free...

You can fantasise about all and everything.... just dont forget that its just THÁT.
A FANTASY..
There is were they miss big time.... time and time again.... They all get very, very upset if you dont want to play along in their little fantasy game...
Start cursing you; trying to humiliate you, by doing so, showing how they lack, on soo many levels...
" you are not a sub!? you are fake!?" Sure....

And they are right, i am fake, to their fantasy, that is....

Oh, and always, always, want to have to last word... no matter what..... giggles....

I feel sorry for them... i do.....

i get the most bizar mail from men, who really have no clue whatsoever, and especially not about who i am...
Not interested too.... as long as they, in their little fantasy,
can 'dominate'(?) me... = fuck me to dead.... yawn.....

boooringgggg! so, so, terrible boring... yawn.....

My life is very, very real and how i chose it to be... no need for escapism.
My life is whole, as it is.
The man who understands & captures my submissive and masochistic heart is really, really wanted, loved and honored.

it has not always been easy but who told life would be easy? You learn, you struggle, you grow... you are proud of your own achievement, you like what you see, everyday in the mirrow. Thát is what counts.
No need for escapism here.

Stay safe and sane,

jenny14 75T  
90392 posts
4/6/2017 11:03 am

rose

Yes, may DO fantasise here!

However, some are genuine! Most of the regular bloggers are - this takes an effort...


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


rosaenaluin 65F
11053 posts
4/6/2017 2:34 pm

Jenny,

i know, they are genuine! and i like some of their blogs very much.
yes, it takes guts to stay genuine! It is like swimming against the tide..... stay safe.


rosaenaluin 65F
11053 posts
4/11/2017 7:10 am

MissAnn, i doubt if you can call that escaping.... because You know what You do! and why and how.....

most men here, i make an assumption now... just go from their gut feelings.. and we all know where that leads us to.... .....

In the outside world i also am a totally different person, from when i am with a genuine dominant man.....

There is a huge difference between those two parts of me...
I have a defence system in working order, in the outside word... i need to.

because vanillas/ men, dont recognise one thing from the other, and misinterpret what they think they see....

most of the time my submissive behaviour is read as if i am a easy lay, prey fuck meat....
So i protect myself against those.....

Plus, i am verbally pretty strong, men dont associate that with being submissive at the same time... too different for them....

take care, i like your blog!



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