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sensuallity versus sexuality Lets put this blunt, The whole society is sexualized! Yes that is a word! This means; WOMEN are sexualized! look at all the commercials....? So, sex is something you can sell or buy something with... a fleeting feeling of happiness? a fleeting feeling of belonging? A fleeting feeling of BEING someone, because YOU bought thát special brand of car? coffee? shoes?? You name it. This is all happening on a sub awareness level... it does. Most people are not aware of this.... manipulation of the massesss.... so, females are flesh you can buy something for or with.... Sex is not longer a pure feeling anymore.... it is commercialized..... You can buy women, you can buy sex.... I believe we all, are born as sensual beings, that means, we are aware of the body we are in, and we enjoy touching and feeling it, as a whole,.. each others and our own skin.... As a , when you grow older, you learn in some families, that there are some area's you do not touch yourself, so you get a separation, in feeling and wanting to feel... and feeling good about that too. This is all part of our upbringing... every, almost everybody is brainwashen this way... Now you are a grownup and your image about sex and sexuality is all focussed on these area's wich you were not allowed to touch.... very narrow minded sexual image... To me, it is only natural to touch people, when i talk to people i know, or we have a nice conversation were there is much mirrowing, about the topics we discus, i touch people. Like the more Southern countrys are custom to do, Italy, Spain, Portugal, Greece, .. it is part of their social code... That is totally not sexual, not at all. that is sensual, To me, there are not much bounderies between sensual touching or sexual touching, i mean the one can flow into the other, when you both are in balance... and or wanting that.... Here i find only totall fixation on THE PENIS, as a substitute for a more whole sensuality/sexuality... You miss so much, if you are only fixated on YOUR PENIS.... your whole body is a sex organ... if you only know how the act on that.... My ex husband did not get this, so every time i caressed him, he thought i wanted SEX.... He just could not grasp his head around it, that i only did that to make him feel good, give him some time to relax..... he just could not do that. thats all! it was not mean to be foreplay.... it was just some very sensual touching and caressing.... He was sooo focussed on the sexual act, (his penis) he could not let go of that and enjoy the massages, touching as an act on his own... I see and hear that here all the time, the moment i tell i am not (that) interested in sex.. they are afraid of me, LOL as if i deny a very big part of their beingness.... this can not be true! i must be sick....?! I dont see sex as a deed, on his own, i see it as a deed within so much more... sex is boring, sex is easy, sex is totally not interesting at all, getting naked and perform the act is booring... to me, that is. I am talking vanilla sex, kinky sm play sex.... boring..... But that is because i am a masochist, i like the thud over the sting.... The sensual touching of each other, just as a sign that you appreciate that other person... That you acknowledge that other being, as an important being for you... That gives me a boost. they should and could flow into each other, the sensual beings we are, with the need for the deed..... lol.... but that is not written in concreet. It is strange that on a site like this, there are soo many sexual occupied people, who are only able to think and act on one thing.... so very much occluded. So narrow minded.... strange...... Oh, and if you want to go for a quicky, that is a whole other categorie!  Just my rambling about sexuality and human behaviour..... |
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rose A great ramble! I agree - sensuality is so very nice! I love a soft touch, gentle talk etc Of-course , BDSM is a wonderful lead in too  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Thanks, jenny14, To me it is all about giving comfort to my dom/partner....relaxation..... and the sweet touch.... ofcourse... well, bdsm is all about love... no matter in wich form..... tenderness is just part of being human, i think.... 
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