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It is sooo bad..... and sad too....:-( There is a distinct way in wich a Genuine/ by heart Dominant contacts you.... Or how a player/kinkster-bedroomonly sexplay-act-dominant contacts you.... Believe me, there is! I have met a whole lot of *playerdomskinksters*.... Their ammo is always the same, it may vary in rudeness, assumption, but the modus operandi is the same. One of the things they are capable of doing is "kissing you" online, what the fuck that may mean?! Also, inappropiate kissing, "spanking" of body parts seems one of the thing they really, really like to do.. ONLINE.... In a mailcontact.....  There is not even any sign that you have something in common yet, but, he is already spanking and kissing you...(without any consent at all!) PLAYING THE GAME OF SEXSM... i get sick to the stomach! This is only for their own hornyness, to stroke their EGO, it has nothing to do, with who you are, what you need. Nothing at all! It is such a sick behaviour. If you say something about it, they get very, very upset, angry, out of controle, it was just for fun! If you dont accept thát, then you are not A TRWUE SUB... right!, as in he is not a dom kind of way...?  You should not think soo much of it... PÁRDON! So you have to accept sexual haressment? because that man is able to make a choice in a lists of roles he thinks he can perform? and calls himselfs A dom? An other thing; they almost never ever show some real human interest in YOU. they demand to know what you like... your sexual preference... your hard limits... All sex orientated! Not person orientated. Objectify the person... make her a thing, a cunt & anus with boobs..... This is about playing the game of "dominance".... the sex driven game... the one and only goal is orgasm. His. By using your bodyopenings.. = kinky sex, swinger, player. When you want to know more about him, as a person, what he is like, in real life, if he likes his job, his parents, his co-workers....? They are very reluctant to open up, it is all very surly... you have to drag those fact out of them.... A genuine dominant, by heart, has patience, knows that he must let the sub/slave get to know him, give her the time... answer all her questions, give freely info about himself and his grow.... into this all so strange needs and feelings... want to get to know YOU, as a person, what your dislikes and likes are in life. What makes you happy, what makes you sad, wants to know your emotional stability, your whole back ground.... A GENUINE, BY HEART, DOMINANT is interested in YOU, as a whole....person... So, when i meet a someone new, online first... mostly, ofcourse, and he acts in this manner... only into the kinky- fantasy- play... act...? Only all about HIS wants....? Dont ask me 1 personal question and show genuine interest...? i know enough. The players mode is; checking facts, comparing lists, starts of with kinky horny talk, 'getting her in the mood'.... talk.... and gó! for it. sex, sex, sex,...... A genuine, by heart dominant, is much more playfull, he will try to build some kind of bond, friendship.... Will in a playfull manner find more about the who you are. Talk tó, with you, not at you. ...... Just, again, some other loser, [pardon me], player/kinkster, horny dog!.... pretending to be, something he will never ever be able to. waste of time, waste of space, waste of energy... If a socalled "dom", is not even able to control himself online? How can i ever trust him to control himself in any other kind of situation...? If he let me lead the conversation, if he goes with mý flow, instead of stay in his own flow? and let me be myself.....? Who, the fuck is leading who then? discusting little crawling creepers.....   I am very, very sorry, but my patience is about to run out. All those horny dogs- players!! sick to the stomach i get from them.. pretending to be something they are not ever able to pull off and out of their way mad if i confront them with their lack on all levels.... starting by lack of ethical human behaviour... Not the behaviour you should expect for so called grown ups.. adults... Such a pity.... i feel sad for them.... Sites like this and FETLIFE and COLLARSPACE/COLLARME can only survive because all those lurkers.... fakers, players...  otherwise, there might be just a handfull of people who really understand what this is all about.... So sad..... so deeply saddening. cry me a river.... Joe Cocker..... |
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