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First Requirement; For setting up a contact; First Requirement: Act like the human being you are, not some imaginair fantasy role, you cooked up in your own head about yourself. No body is perfect, without flaw. Most subs have a pretty good vision about the qualities they seek in a person with dominant tendencies. Second requirement: Be the person you are, when you are with friends, family, coworkers, neighbors, while drinking coffee... Third requirement: Be true to yourselfs, Sooner then later the other person will notice some inconsistancy, in your behaviour, your mail, in your word use, your whole demeanor. Listen, if you have trouble with remembering, take notes. And, more important: aks questions, Be inquisitive, curious, genuine Remember her answers! Have a fluent conversation, be in control, (of yourself) that is not the same as bullying someone into submission.... You only have to 'prove' your humanity, empathic skills, sense of humor, She/He will notice if your - dominance- is sincere, and fits her way of submission.... ..... Or just a selfish, egoistic act to get to her pussy... Dont start a conversation about her bodyparts/pinkparts, shape of nipples, length of her labia, her pain threshold. She is not some sexworker! She is also NOT YOUR FETISH DELIVERY SYSTEM. She is a human being FIRST. This is about building trust, get to know each other, friendship first. Be prepared to answer all kind of questions, about your character, your job, your history with girlfriends or boys? Your longest relation, your family bond, Anything, with wich she/he can estimate your personality to see if you two are compatible. Compatibility is what counts, liking each other, having the same sense of humor, sex drive, moral codes, political ideas, ecological thoughts. Or just check her fetish list, see where you are compatible and go from there, that is being a TOP and being a BOTTOM. That has nothing to do with D/s relation, M/s relation/dynamic. That is all about wanting to experience as much as possible actions from your fetish list. Nothing wrong there, if that is what you are after. BÚT, DONT CALL YOURSELF A DOM, PLEASE If you do, you are just plain stupid and it shows. Know the difference. |
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rosa This is all so self-evident! It is such a shame so few adhere to it  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Yeah, well, you know? Most here, are getting very horny by the thought of calling them selfs D O M... wich in their case, means absolutely nothing. And the rest has made some overload in their brain after watching too many not so good BDSM porn movies... after that, the reality will never kick in again!  
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A-men to that! Taximan! They are not ever able to handle that amount of responsibility; run for their mommys! It is all about THEM, they dont care one bit about the woman, subs/slaves at all. They dont have a clue..... How liberating it can feel, for both, if there is a match.... It is a pitty they pester subs on here.. with their mega big egos and sick little children games.... end of rant!
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