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rosaenaluin 65F
10190 posts
3/7/2018 5:30 am
"They" have a real harsh time,


They, the men who try to contact me...

They really have a very harsh time.

I am sooooo sick and tired of all those Mega Ego games....
They think they need to play, to impress me...
with what??

baked air?? empty background noise??

To show they have a University background, can use very expensive words?
Well, applause for yourself!!

When they start with that game, they already flunked the humanity test.
NEXT!

Or when they tell me, in their first mail that i have to do this, that or the other...
WHY?

did i asked advice? about that particulair subject?
NO I DID NOT.

The assumptions they throw around, it is sooooo terrible boring...
I dont like to be treaten as if i dont have a working brain, just because i consider myself to be a slave woman.
That kind of behaviour is sooo terrible insulting, offensive.

What Is Wrong With Just ASK QEUSTIONS???
Get a conversation going, flowing??

If i dont feel you have the right to know something, yet, or if i think it is way out of line, that particulair question?

I for sure let you know, in a nice way, first..

I have this man, contacted me, on that other site, because i posted a question about piercing...

He already starts with all kind of assumptions.
Sooo tired, sooo tired of those geezers!

He looks rather intelligent, but my god! He is STUPID!! & narrow minded too!

Because i like to be pierced, he assume i like a man with a pierced penis?!
Hell no!
I dont think a pierced penis is a asset at all!

The thought about all that (non) iron inside of me, while we have sex..?
NO- WAY- IN- HELL!

How can i show him my excellent blow job qualities , when i have a mouthfull of iron?

That just does not work, for me, and getting them all out...?
it looks like a accident happen.. all those holes... shudders...

Alright, so i am trying to play it nice, this time...
While, to be frank, i am already bored out of my head, by all his assumptions...

OOOh, i am bad!!!

My god, how boring!!

All those fragile tender male souls...egoos....
Grow a Freaking Backbone and while you are at it, some balls too!

I have this one contact, from this site, he is good, he is totally not impressed with my way of reaction.. my pepper, my fierceness.
he can handle that very well,
We have a very good conversation and a lot of fun doing so
I insult him, just for fun, and he knows that too!
We laugh about it, no big deal.
He gets to know me, and i him, he challenge me, with the things he says.
He challenge me, to think even more outside the box... I soo much enjoy that with him.

The situation is such, there will never be room enough for a regular M/s 24/7 Total Authority Transfer... alas, because, well, we match on a whole lot of levels!!
Oh my!

we both know that... so i keep on looking and he... well he does what ever it is what he does...
We have some play time, together... that is good...

Those men, dont have an easy time, trying to get to know me!
They have to work hard for it, otherwise i already lose interest
One stupid remark, and i am done!
One insulting remark about women in general and i am done.
One stupid remark about sex and i am for sure, done!

BDSM does not equals sex!! for crying out loud! At least not for mé!

Oh, Oh Oh!!!

That poor man.

I have givin myself some time off...
So, i wont be all agitated/irritated when i react on his mail, again...
breath deep! Zen and all that!

It feels more like i want/need! to chop some Wood!

End of rant!

rosaenaluin 65F
11092 posts
3/7/2018 5:35 am

It bothers me, that some of those men think, that if they contact you,
You are already lying down, legs open, arsh open and mouth open
to collect his... crap.

My god! com pa ti bi li ty!!!! compatibilty rules!

I am not here, for some random kinky fuckery
If that was what i was after, i could easily go to the pub and find someone there.
nowadays, almost all men are into some sort of kinky shit in the bedroom.


HW13KineticBlue 55M

3/7/2018 5:50 am

Thank you, Preacher Rose, for yet another exhilarating sermon!!! Darlin, i would love someday to meet you just to shake your hand and hug your neck for the things you write on here and the way you write them! You are quite the rare gem. PLEASE, don't ever change. you're beautiful just the way you are!
Love,
-Russ


brandygirasol 55T
9437 posts
3/7/2018 6:03 am

Rosa I do soooooo know what you mean ... Its ridiculous how many times I've gotten this message from some guy over 100 miles away = Sure wish I lived closer to you!!! ... Arrogantly assumes I would automatically hook up with him- when in reality it wouldn't matter to me if he lived next door unless I like the guy ... Also assumes I get with ANY available man with a dick- so the guy is also casually insulting me without realizing it Oh well I guess I'm asking for too much...


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
3/7/2018 6:24 am

It’s so much harder for men as there are so many more men out there so you would expect them to be extra careful how they approach women. Although I guess different women respond to different ways of communicating. For instance, perhaps some like direct (rude) first emails with a photo of their manhood. It certainly wouldn’t work for me but who knows might for some.


jenny14 75T  
90491 posts
3/7/2018 9:10 am

rosa

I totally agree! If some-one wants to get to you some-one else, make an effort!!!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


rosaenaluin 65F
11092 posts
3/7/2018 10:27 am

Russ,

You made my day! with your reaction! great!! thank you sir!!!!

I just try to be just me, with all my temperament, fire and such... it is not ever for very long, after a while i can see the humor of it all, in it!


rosaenaluin 65F
11092 posts
3/7/2018 10:29 am

tinkerfun,

I know, but to assume that that methode works for all?

one size fits all BDSM? Hmm, that must be something new!! amp;


rosaenaluin 65F
11092 posts
3/7/2018 10:32 am

Brandy, you understand it!! we suffer!!!! from their lack of intelligence... whahaha

this guy now wants to know why i like piercing and where i do have them...
párdon? me?
oh, and by the way, he likes to get to know me, too... Yeah! right!
i rest my case.


rosaenaluin 65F
11092 posts
3/7/2018 10:33 am

taximan, do you really think so ?

i might think i am getting ready for some sort BDSM asylum... madhouse...
straightjacket here i come!


rosaenaluin 65F
11092 posts
3/7/2018 10:39 am

Jenny,
it looks like that even showing some common interest is already too much to ask...

Quick fix is all what matters, that is also more and more the case on FET..
as if it is some hook up site.

ah, well, my life is good, never mind the big missing feeling.... the core.... emptyness, unfulfilled...... sighs.....



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