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Anecdotes The strangest things some play dominants have told or asked me... The very first time i was on Alt on chat too, this man asks me; "Do you have your BDSM clothes on"? I was like; huh? What? He began to explain me what BDSM clothes were ment to be.... I was flabbergasted... sooo, see if i have this right...? to become "A sub" i need all kind of strange clothes? Things i wont wear dead!?!?! AHA, I dont think i have to tell you, that was the end of the conversation, maybe he was as much flabbergasted as i was... pretending to bé A SUB, without having the RIGHT kind of clothes on....?  An other prospect "dominant/player" told me, we were already talking a long time, chat. He told me, i needed to have a rubber hair band on my left wrist, everyday, all day, because i needed that to be remembered that i was his sub.... if and when that would happen.... He would text message me on certain times, to tell me i had to hurt myself with that rubber band, to remember myself of being his.....??? WTF! Again, totally flabbergasted, i told him that if i would become his sub or slave... i did not need a rubber band to be remembered of my status... He got very, very angry with me. One other person, while we talked about all aspect of BDSM as a way of living... he told me, that when we would be together. He had this thing he would give me, wich he wanted me to use, so that was the start of that D/s play act..... HUH?!?! he wanted me to put on back mascara, because when he was going to hit me and i started crying, the mascara would be all over my face and that was his turn-on... HUH??? You see? It is never about mé, her, the sub, but all about THEIR FETISHES. I was always totally confused after those 'conversations'... WTF, have all those actions to do with being, BEING a submissive, slave....? BEING, not act/play/act the sexual submissive role...? it was always very, very confusion, those conversations. My irritation levels went all through the roof!!! AAAARRRRGGGGG.... Babylon all over again. Some other thing that catched my eye, mind, my attention was all those socalled 'dominant/bedroomplaydominants', ALL wanted to go for my hard limits... You know? Hard limits are called HARD LIMITS for a reason..?! YOU- NEVER- EVER- FOR SURE IN THE FIRST 6 MONTHS TO A YEAR, GET EVEN NEAR THOSE HARD LIMITS!!!! Why? There is soo much more to explore.. why this obsession with hard limits? I gues it must have been some hard-core-sm porn they have been watching... getting all horny- worked up about that, gone is any SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL . Only after you have build some real life significant trust between the two of you, you can, maybe, after long and wide conversations about those hard limits, see if you can push them somewhat.. just very easy, lightly..... Players!  amp; Just some things that came back to me... there must be so much more strange anecdotes..... This was all in the get to know each other better fase... I have more, but that was mostly real nasty, threaten behaviour. That was already in a other stadium.... |
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If you feel the need? or want, you can put your own strange "encounters" on here...? Or not,  
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LMOA!!! RIGHT! LOL! and getting angry when you dont want to play their little "game"....?!
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sends you hugs have heard similar things through the years.... Hard Limits I was told by one that I would learn to change my mind on them to please him Hard limits are that for a reason. My other fav was to have one tell me to ditch my child as they don't have children nor want any children in their lives nor want any children in my life then I would make a perfect sub. Hang in there you will find the right one who will appreciate you for the amazin woman you are!!
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I'm with you on hard limits. If the prospective dominant doesn't or won't respect them it's time to walk away.......
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Lilli, mental masochism i pressume? 
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taximan, Yes! Yes!  I knew you would understand that. indeed, that is only possible when the sub/slave woman has made that decision. has found so much trust... and surrender too
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celtdragn, Thank you, so sweet of you! It is and always will be F*cking unbelievable to me, all those egoistic stupidity. Thank you for your of contribution.
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