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rosaenaluin 65F
10199 posts
5/28/2018 6:58 am
Anecdote 2,


This one really got my head spinning...
Thinking; Am i the stupid one, or is he???

This fine example of malehood... cough......

while chatting with each other,
all of the sudden asked me, what my pain level was....?

come again?
Pain level?????

So, this time i played it dom... hahah oh i mean stupid, sorry...
so i asked him, what do you mean by that?
He wanted to know up front how many hits with a whip i could take.

Really?

To be honest, i dont know...
It is not baking a cake...

I remember one play action in wich i got very very nausea....
O could not handle one hit with anything.
Just got sick .

An other time he could go on and on and on, with a very big horsetail whip, i was just fine, taking it all in,
No problem there....

So, this person calling himself UberdomSIrDarkLord-kneel-you-Bitch-,
or god knows what...
did not know that not every day is the same, so it could be, just could be, that a person on the masochistic side of the slash,
could take one day more then the other day...?

He wanted a garanty. Its that sweet?

So i asked him, do you like Brussels Sprouts?
Yes he did.
I asked; what if you have to eat them all day, every day?
He got agitated, what has Brussels Sprouts have to do with bdsm....
My oh, mY....
I rest my case....

One other so called "dom" thought he had the right to call me up at all houres.
he was always on th move, stay out till late and when he arrived home,
he liked to talk to me, at 03:00 houre in the morning...

it did not matter to him, that i needed my sleep, i having and wanting to keep my job, i like a steady life with rules and such...
No!, just because we were past the chat and mail stage, he thought he already had rights!
My rights?
I was the sub? wasn't i?

I have met such bizarre and mental delusional people....
You just wonder.....

Creating havoc.

Not having any basic knowledge about BDSM, SAFETY, HARD LIMITS, STOP WORDS, respect for the submissive women,

And, Having no intention to learn anything about the basics of BDSM, too.
They ARE the dominants, they dont need to learn anything...

One other guy wanted to know how long my labia is...?
Párdon?
He did not introduce himself to me, did not tell me anything about himself.

So i asked him, would you feel comfortable asking this to someone who is waiting on the same bus stop with you?
Would you ask this to your niece?
Again!
the answer was: what has the size of labia to do with people waiting on a bus stop? Dont you dare get my niece involved with all this?

HUH? What? really?

I think it is rather strange, those men get all very verbally aggressive, while i asked a perfectly normal question...
Wich you could not say about their questions... at all.....
Makes you wonder, dont you?

That why i am not very often on IM.
Degradation and Humilation is NOT on my fetish list.

take care, be aware, you have rights!
The first right is; Be always SAFE.

rosaenaluin 65F
11096 posts
5/29/2018 12:32 am

Taximan!
i will! LOL.


rosaenaluin 65F
11096 posts
5/29/2018 12:33 am

lejarle,

thank you,


rosaenaluin 65F
11096 posts
5/29/2018 12:36 am

Miss_Sixty,
Oh, my!
From now on, i gonna judge them by their foreskin, since i like circumcised penisses! LOL!


rosaenaluin 65F
11096 posts
5/29/2018 12:39 am

Maxkat,
Oh, dont worry, this was all long time ago.
This wont happen nowadays, i just ignore those, because they are also not able to take NO as an answer....


rosaenaluin 65F
11096 posts
5/29/2018 12:41 am

Lilli, You are so right, indeed.
That is the way to handle those species....

Sounds very balanced to me, your way of switching...


rosaenaluin 65F
11096 posts
5/29/2018 12:51 am

Miss_Sixty,

I had one contact who wanted to know the size of my nipples... idiots! ,
because he liked those very big wide... areola....

You are not real to them, you are a accessory for their fantasies.

What that has to do with my submissiveness? i will never know...


rosaenaluin 65F
11096 posts
6/8/2018 11:32 pm

Hahhaha, love your reaction!!
Sooo right on the dot!!

all those porn reinaction from those pore vanillas who does not know ONE thing about what being, BEING, -not play some sex fantasy role submission-

BEING submissive can mean for that one particular woman!

It is all one size fits all fantasy role play...

Thanks! you made my day!!! needed this laugh, kind of reaction! so hard!



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