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rosaenaluin 65F
10190 posts
8/18/2018 2:50 pm
Seven DEADLY SINS of a Dominant, sequel,


Most men on here,
have done those SEVEN DEADLY SINS, one way or the other.

The one most favorite of some play at fantasy role playdoms,
is neglect and ignore.
Dont take any responsibility for their actions.
Dont care about your feelings at all.

Their first objectiv was online wank fodder,
They never where serieus about meeting you, at all.
They will say and 'promise' about anything to get some fluids flowing.

As long as they get horny, by messaging you, talking about all kind of sexual activities,
they are totally into you.
Only this - BEING INTO YOU- is as long as their cock is hard.

after some time, they lose interest in you,
they have fulfilled all THEIR horny fantasies, and are done.
It is all a play for them, they are never, ever serieus about meeting you,
or wanting a D/s play contact /relation with you.
NEVER.

They just stop contacting you, totally forget about you, cant even remember your name.

are already on the move for the next hottie.
The hunters/predators.
VANILLA MEN. all of them.
They dont have what it takes.

DOMINANCE, AS A CHARACTER TRAIT, has nothing to do with what ever kind of silly sexual only games.

they play what they think is the sexual dominance role, fantasy play, porn reinacting games
horny games.

Falcon1343 80M
286 posts
8/18/2018 2:52 pm

and a lot of that mumble jumble holds true for women.


rosaenaluin 65F
11092 posts
8/18/2018 2:56 pm

For every one of those DEADLY SEVEN SINS, i can give soo many examples of male behaviour, here, on line.
For every one of those sins.
Not only what i experience, but from sooo many women on here and on FET too.

All are a sign, that you are dealing with vanillas, who just want some horny sexgames. or porn reinacting, NSA.


allycheekon 58F
124 posts
8/18/2018 4:35 pm

Sorry, but the exact same thing can be said about female subs on this site as well.


rosaenaluin 65F
11092 posts
8/18/2018 11:15 pm

Sure, i agree with you all! You are right! about that!

But, i never have contact with such play-sex-role-fantasy "subs"/females vanillas.

To me, those are also just some plain vanillas with a boring sex life (at home),
looking for a way to escape that treadmill... as long as it takes to get an online orgasm.

When you as men, only think with that one eyed head between your legs, look for some hot pussy, and not much futher,
that is what you get.

instant crativigation comes before using your head on your shoulder, to think with.
If you dont ask serious question about her view on 'submissiveness?'
About what "dominance" means to her?

When you guys dont want to invest your time and energy to really, really get to know that other person? talk with each other? about day to day living,
Not her sexual appetite, but the PERSON,This is what you get.

Those guys dont stand a chance with me, looking at their profile & profile name/picture, checking out their "friends" list, watching their pictures, tells me enough.
They dont want a person, with the full use of her brain, they want a fetish/fantasy delivery system.
This shows me all i need to know, to just ignore those players/predators/wannebees.

I tell about my experience with "online dominants". amp; LMAO.

have nice day!


rosaenaluin 65F
11092 posts
8/18/2018 11:21 pm

A dominant has a whole other kind of responsibilities in a contact, (RELATION), then a submissive has.

it all starts with honesty.

that is lacking on sooo many levels here, counts for the women too.
It is all play and make believe, to release some workstress/bad marriage stress.

That has nothing to do with the core values of BDSM.



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