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Paying a woman a compliment? Talking with a man, on here.... It was not much, nót sorry to say.. He was a lazy bitch! , telling me, that "he liked mature woman"  amp;I háte it when guys use that word. That Is Not A compliment! He was just too fucking lazy to read or educate himself about anything sexual..... What a bore! he was like 20 years younger.... sick pervert! Still looking for his momma? He tried to pay me a compliment by telling that those women (?) have so much knowlegde and are so without limits.... amp;Whát? Men! Some (vanilla?) guys are really sooo boring, sad.... and so very predictable. Blocked & deleted him, what a loser... Just needed to vent this nuisance. |
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Today i was in a bike shop, the guys there were so nice and helpful, real men! 
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3/4/2020 1:43 pm |
When someone 20 or more years younger says they like mature woman. They are really saying they want some quick pussy and anyone will do. If he he really liked a woman that was older than he. He wouldn't make age an issue. He would see you as an equal and want to know you as a person. Yea he's a pervert. To someone that's vanilla. Submissive is code for easy pussy. At least in their mind. You should have had some fun with this guy and told him you could be interested, but you'd really like to see your BF get it on with him and use him like a bitch. That guy wasn't trying to pay you a compliment. He was trying to feed you bullshit. Your spot on observations made me laugh. I have 20 and 30 something year old women want to talk to me all the time and I won't even talk to them. I hope you have an enjoyable day.
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Nice woman I love you
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I say kick him to the curb !
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3/4/2020 4:41 pm |
it does not always mean a guy is a lost cause sometimes like what happened with me i was taught how to talk to respect and treat women
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I think they think I know what I like and do not like when it comes to playing with them, however, when anyone refers to me as a "mature woman" (I find with man of so many age groups) think will flatter me they have another think coming...I also find it to be a manipulative move to try to get me to play with them. I politely provide them with the requirements to play with me and they disappear very quickly. Truthfulness, politeness, and the ability to writtenly express myself have been quite crucial in placing these trolls to where they belong in my play book...by not being placed in it.
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Complimenting a woman is risky business regardless of what a man says. In today's world, almost anything we say can be misinterpreted as sexual harassment. So my solution is to never compliment a woman until I get to know her well enough that she trusts me and accepts what I tell her without worrying about ulterior motives.
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Hot_Buns, Indeed, very wise, and how can you "compliment" women, if you dont know anything about them? it is just bullshit, making yourself feel good, not that other PERSON. Lets face it, most men have ulterior motivations... when in contact with women...That is just a fact of our life....
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alwayassertive, your idea of "fun" is not my idea of "fun". An other woman might have thought about such manouvres....act... I dont play games! But, you do you.
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drmgirl622,  , Pathetic little loser vanilla! 
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Thank you, sub_nouveau, 
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Masters_sl_a_v_e, Indeed, manipulative! at the core! Thank you for your reaction,
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At all, i know, people can have age as a fetish. This was not about age as a fetish, that moronic imbecil just wanted access to my private parts... As if SM has anything to do with sex??  for some, maybe, but not for me...SM is about power/Authority Transfer, not sex.
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Some people just struggle with initiation of interaction. I personally try to see the intentions and dont automatically make a presumption on a person by their word choice. Yes you find "mature woman" somewhat manipulative and insulting but instead of automatically presuming others intentions why not politely explain this to a person instead of jumping onto the defensive? Maybe you could have used the opportunity to educate the guy? Surely that's one of the reasons we are all here? To broaden our minds, seek similar minded people and to learn from each other? Men are walking on a minefield these days, everyone enjoys a compliment but not everyone makes a good judgement on how best to approach this. I've had guys 15 years my junior call me a "mature woman" my response is less defensive... I advise them I maybe older in age but certainly not "mature" lol. I dunno maybe my comment will elicit backlash but my perspective is different to yours. Just something to reflect on.
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Thank you! Mskitty, i see what you are saying. And in a perfect world that might be working... Maybe i am a bit cynical or jaded, who knows? i tried the explain it thing, for years, most are getting really, really nasty and foul mouthed, when i tried that. So nowadays i dont even bother, they are here to get fucked, not learn a thing about themselfs or others... I have that experience in shops, when men/selling person call me Madam.. I always joke about it, i dont like formal speech, that much.... makes me feel uncomfortable... Although i understand their attitude it this. Hope to read more of your insightful contribution!
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