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rosaenaluin 65F
10189 posts
6/11/2020 8:31 am
Vanilla world, 2,


So, in this way, both girls, but more so, boys are raised very 1 dimensional.
Especially boys.

Girls are allowed be the tomboy, but boys are not allowed to be the nurse, or the soft caring species.

Girls, to a certain time and age, are allowed to develop some more qualities then only the soft spoken, soft everything species.

Boys, learn at a very early age to "man Up".
Both species are totally emotional handicapt, because they are not whole.

They have had only half of a development, emotional and rational.

Both sexes are suppressed in their development.
Boys dont get soft toys, boys get hard toys, construction, so the develop only that part of their brain.

Girls are forced to only with soft and endless caring, nurturing toys...
So, they too, only develop just halve their qualities

And that is still workin in all levels in society, today.

When i go hunting for new volenteer wor...
They all assume, i am good for nurture work

I am a female, so i only quailfy for caring jobs...?
Assumptions.

Hell! no!
I always tell them, if you want me get a job in the nurture sector,

i might be a woman, but that is no garantee for that i am fit for such a job.
They always look very strange at ..

As if i am missing some gene or something...

Assumptions!

Sure, we all go by some assumptions, but most of the time, they come back bite you...

When you did not get a "normal/standard" upbringing, when you just had find your own way in the world, you have a totall other look at this world,
and all these assumptions and 'role playing'.

Because, you could develop in all matters, not just one way, only.
So you learned from both worlds.
That makes you so rich...

And, on the other hand, so totally handicapt for this dualistic world.
You can see the jealousy from men to women and the other way around...

Because they both lack that special development what could have made them more whole as a person, on a emotional and rational level too.

I have heard soo may times, that i am far too rational, "FOR A WOMAN".
Right.
That i think and analyse as A MAN.
Right...... ?

I always ask them what they mean by that....
They cant answer that... Cant explain....
assumptions..... sexistic crap!

So, because i dont cry, when i bring my cat to the vet, to give the cat his last treatment....
I am not a woman?
I dont feel emotions?

They would NEVER, EVER say that to a man.
On the contrary, IF HE was a wimpering mess, they would look funny at him...

Emotional crippled, both ways.

Sexistic crap!

As long as we dont see this, that a new person on this planet is a person, first.
With qualities wich fits his/her character...Not her sexe.

we keep fucking up and make crippled people.

I always like to fuck with people and their assumptions, i really enjoy that!
Rock the boat, baby!
Yes! I am bad!

So, when my was born, the whole family wanted know what "it" was....

S, i told them, it is human!!!. hahahaha
It is a person!
They were in shock and angry, because they wanted to know... ?
So, they could buy pink or bleu clothes for this individu....

And, from that moment on, almost ever body's behaviour and expectation patterns are stuck, focussed on the sexe of that individu, not the character traits.
And pushed in a certain way.....

Dualism & sexistic crap.

We need whole people, wo can develop according to their charactertraits, not to their sexe... only......

War between the sexes.......

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
6/11/2020 8:49 am

I will get there,
Where?
i dont really know myself....


lancylad 78M
384 posts
6/11/2020 9:00 am

" Rock the Boat, baby " & keep rocking it please Rosa !!!!!


Gowron 69M
3118 posts
6/11/2020 9:20 am

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    I will get there,
    Where?
    i dont really know myself....
Girls can get away with hugging, kissing and holding hands.
Boys should allow no intimacy between them.

If a girl beds another, she's still a girl.
If a boy beds another, he's irrevocably gay.


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
6/11/2020 1:01 pm

Gowron,
indeed, and all it shows, is that she did not Yet " Have had a REAL MAN, as if woman to woman love is second best, or something like that.
Disgusting, male, penetration orientated sexual image.

The whole sexual scale is much, much more then just P I V.

Yes, while exploring your own body / sexuality, can you do best with someone of the same sex, is my idea. you learn much more, about yourself, your body.


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
6/11/2020 1:04 pm

lancylad, hahaha, thank you. If & when i am inspired... it could become dangerous...


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
6/11/2020 1:13 pm

Gowron,

Also because the way the world thinks about the female sexuality is crippled.
It is not real, it can only exist in combination with the male sexuality.
Female sexuality on her own, has no value.
Is kindergarten spielery.
They wish!


ready4somehard 36M

6/11/2020 9:37 pm

looking for local subs


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
6/11/2020 10:15 pm

Ready, maybe the Walmart has them... in stock?


jenny14 75T  
90481 posts
6/12/2020 7:49 pm

rosa

I love your answer to ready


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Another great post! The World needs more people like you who call out bull shit for what it is!!

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
6/13/2020 2:27 pm

jenny, , Thank you. .



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