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rosaenaluin 65F
10131 posts
6/21/2020 12:24 am
It is NOT about sex, It is NEVER ABOUT SEX!


Aah, finally.

Peace & quiet .

No more moronic, vanilla, married, cleuless, horny dogs!
NO MORE!

Pppfffff......

I am also a bit active on Fet, i like discussions, i follow a lot of groups, give my opinion on some topics.....
Make fun, about all the fakes, who are soo transparant....

After some fight, on the Dutch part of Fet, i actually just lost all interest in the Dutch part of Fet.
Sometimes, it is like a pack of wild dogs are attacking one person, burn that person to the ground.

Like it happens on FB.
Disgusting, hive mind, mob mentallity.

You have stupid and you have.....
Soo much assumption, soo many prejudices, soo much narrow mindedness....

I tried, once to talk about the behaviour of that socalled "d", i met.

I just wanted other women to know, dont get involved with this man.!
I talked about his behaviour, about his actions.
Not his personality.
FACTS.

I did not know what hit me, because, all of the sudden, Almost ALL the men on that forum attacked mé!
And some women too!

No! No! NO way, could they believe me on my word,
This could be a one woman's revenge action.... bla bla bla....
If they started with that!?
Then all men will become victums, of vindictive women!

Yeah? So?
Hmmmmm?
Strange string of thoughts.....

What did that tell me?
At least it give way to the suspicion, that maybe, just maybe,
Some of those very loud shouting men, did something not ethical, too?

Not according to the rules about SM, safe, sane and consensual. respect, honesty.
Being responsible, accountable your actions.

Did, also fuck a sub up, real bad and walked away from it.

"Not his problem"// "She was always just a bit too hysterical"...
And more of that kind of justicifations!

Or any kind of other justification, for their lack of Dominance & ability to take on RESPONSIBILITY.
OWN YOUR SHIT.

Like soo many men, who really have no emotional adult behaviour to be accountable for their actions.

Most men get confused about my profile, text, on Fet.

"IT IS NOT ABOUT SEX, it is NEVER ABOUT SEX!

SM = not about sex!?!

wtf!

Now, there is an other woman, who wants to warn other woman about a guy, who is very dangerous...

And again, Fet, too... does not want to do, anything about keeping us submissives safe!
Yeah, you can report him... duh!
That kind of predators just makes an other profile and continue his behavior.

Only hit by a truck, will stop such a guy.

(when you make rules, you also can change those rules) for the benevits of the submissives....)
No!

This was also the case on that Dutch bdsm site, there too, the owner did not want to take any actions, about this one person, from wich there were a lot of talk about how dangerous this guy is....

He already had made a lot of 'victums'.....

Now, that guy has found Fet, i believe i recognise his ammo....
And already have made some victums....

And, again, the site faills us women.

Safe, sane?
Forget it!

Disgusting!

I am safe, first;
for most sex players, i am too old.. what ever...?

second;
i am not here, or there, for the sex, kinky fuckery, role play sex, fantasy play sex, porn re-inacting sex.

So, such a dangerous man, would never try to contact me.
Wont understand one word of my profile.
There is nothing to get horny about, No breast picture, no vigigi, no anal, no porn.

Also, this guy is into young and still very tight body's.

He is also very much into admiring his own body! Soo much!
He wants to be admired for his body! Pffff.....

I am not interested in such a shallow person.

He wont survive one mail exchange... hahahah
He has no emotional substance.

For me, as a masochist, sex is not thát interesting.

(ofcourse, if my Master, to be, wants to fuck me, he just can do that, because thát is part of our dynamic and agreed to....)

Is not on my -to-do- list,

Impact play...? Yeah!, now you are talking!

rosaenaluin 65F
11056 posts
6/21/2020 12:26 am

Like my domina friend, allready said; "it is never about sex".
It is about the Authority / power transfer.


Persephone2020 75F
57 posts
6/21/2020 2:43 am

Too bad the majority of losers on here
Don’t understand that.

Stay safe.


rosaenaluin 65F
11056 posts
6/21/2020 4:33 am

sub_nouveau,
Thank you,

Indeed, thats why i put: it is NOT about sex, at the head of my profile.
It is totally impossible to explain, that special dynamic...The energy, the... all....

I think, if you allow me, that i am going to steal that line... about the colour purple...


rosaenaluin 65F
11056 posts
6/21/2020 4:34 am

Persephone,
Thank you, i fully agree!


rosaenaluin 65F
11056 posts
6/21/2020 4:39 am

Butterflywing

Yes, it is a shame, we have to deal with all that rifraf!
The stupid and the ignorant.

That there is no such thing as a kind of examining, about BD- SM...knowlegde....


rosaenaluin 65F
11056 posts
6/21/2020 4:42 am

greenpunkin
Thank you for your reaction, especially mace, i geus?


olderdaddy_63 68M

6/21/2020 12:00 pm

There are a lot of wannabees and it seems they all find you Rosa

There are a lot of women who think they are submissive as well but all they really want is a good kinky fuck while being bound or some other kinkery


rosaenaluin 65F
11056 posts
6/21/2020 12:39 pm

olderdaddy,

Haha, no, that is actually not the case.
Other submissives dont rant about it.
Or, maybe, are more discrete about it?
,
Indeed, i agree with you, in that kind of women, thinking if they dont move, during the sex act, that, that makes them "submissive"....


rosaenaluin 65F
11056 posts
6/22/2020 2:55 am

Thank you, sub_nouveau,

Yes, it is a nice example, for the totall impossibility to explain....



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