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I dont know what it is....? All over the planet there are these kinky-porn- alternative- sexualilty SM sites. In Holland we also have some. But, the amount of vinegar is soo terrible high! on those sites! it is like they just cant accept other people, experience SM/ kinky fuckery / roleplay, in a different way. There is soo much envy, it is terrible! Trying to get other couples to break-up... talking bad behind your back, at munches and meets... This is a constant thing, it is all the time there. I experienced this too, some years ago and decided, i dont want to have to do, anything with those vinegar pissng people. So, i try to stay out of the most or the "conversations/ discussions. Because, before you know it, you somehow insulted someone, (?) ( it is all in their heads) and they are ready to throw some shit on you. Always try to attack you on a personal level.. very sophisticated... NOT Making every item to converse about. a personal battle! it is soo tiresome, you dont get anywere with these people. The other day, i was explaining, that you have play d/s in a "normal"/ vanilla relation, just bdsm sex in the bedroom and that you have 24/7 TAT and that you have people who roleplay 24/7 and that there are Probably more ways too... I did not call a name, i did not put anybody as an example of those forms of having a relationship/ authority transfer. And this one woman, just went for me! Got totally crazy on me. How i dare to say her d/s was not a d/s? and more of such madness And that she needed to ask permission for about anything, and that she had no rights, and on and on... And, that she has some privilege things, he could granted her... She is showing this behaviour all the time, when someone tries to discuss some item, She makes everything into a personal attack and whenever she is at it, there are almost always other folks who smell blood and go for the kill too! Such a nice warm, accepting kink family...  amp;t is such a nuisance to have that woman around. Alo, her d talked with me, years ago, about becoming his submissive.... I was not thrilled by his ideas about "dominance" at all So that ended as it mostly does; in a nasty, name calling way As soo many vanilla playing the game, dominants do... Cant handle rejection very well, no selfcontrole at all. And "that"? is calling himself dominant? Whahah hahah! No way in hell! So tiresome.... There must be better groups, or groups i feel more at home.. But i did not fine them, yet...... I dont know, what it is, that some people make everything someone else tells or wants to hear other peoples opinions of. To a personal battle...? Why? How do they do that, in their heads? She has her own way of having a d/s or what ever it is, she is calling it... Just like everybody else. But dont call a carrot a pinguïn! Most of the time, they have never ever read anything about power dynamics, or the rights of the submissives... Or you name it. Sometimes dont even know the difference between subfrenzy or subspace, to name one thing, and tell stuff that is just not true, correct. Make things up while they go along.... Crazy folks  I |
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It is like a headache file... never ending..... never goes away.
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I'm one that likes to just sit back and observe.......i'll jump into the fray if need be but watching others interact can be so interesting
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it would seem that people in this world are naturally tolerant and open minded . i have long struggled to find those traits . i think bdsm is a place full of asshats who think this bdsm thing gives them a way to be an asshat without having to self examine their lives . i know perversions are very personal but this endless parade of selfish users is very much the same .....not people who NEED this but peeps who think this will get them out of being accountable .
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Well Said!!!
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drmgirl, nice swimming suit!  When going to local or not too local munches i do that too, just watch.... Online, finding an online friend being under attack, because that woman makes every thing into a personal attack, and just dont understand the cleu of the topic? i cant sit back and watch that girlfriend being tear apart, emotional.
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msfunfor, thank you for your wise words! Yeah, well, i too, am not always as tolerant as i wish i would be.. or pretent to be...? Live is some times hard... i am not perfect. Yes! that is what if find lacking by a lot of folks on here, and other SM sites.. selfexamine! is totally lost on a lot! If you dont know, Whó you are, where you come from, how you developed as a (sexual) being, the sexual suppression, you may or may not have not experienced in your yought? How you did free yourself, from that suppression..? What do you have to offer, anyway? You dont know You, but you want to dominate someone else? with what? Or, have submissive feelings, needs, but you dont know "you"....? dangerous shit, man! This is about different SM kind of relation styles, with personal rules and all that.
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Thank you, sub_nouveau. I fully agree with you. That is why i keep silent, in most "discussions"/ conversation....just sighs... and move on. But not when this person attacks a friend of mine, just because she did not understand the situation at hand... Or when i read dangerous stupidity about SM. Being on sites like this - and being soo narrow minded?? Makes you wonder...
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rosa I don; know what to say except I just leave those conversations as quickly s I can! I don;t think people like that can or want to learn... A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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jenny, that is absolutely true! all i did was acknowledge her truth. and compliment her on her truth... She is not really a very smart woman, too. It s a pitty... Not able to see the broader picture...
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