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Why? What is it, that (some?) men, always want to objectify a woman Always have to make her less? A thing? A Object? Cant those fuckers deal with a realife, woman? Cant handle a deep connection, such is needed, for Master _slave, dynamic, to build? Always have to put their little horny porn fanasies on *you*? The assumptions, that flow out of their mouth, is just mind bugging. How can you have a decent, OPEN conversation with such a product? Just an other one, who is totally fixated, only on their selfs... To me, SM, is all about the focus on the other, from both partners. This piece of shit, just ASSUMES i like bondage, [ i dont!] Just ASSUMES i like going down on me, [ i dont] It is ALL about HIM. What is wrong with the mayority of the male pieces of shit, in this society? |
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just aan other one, a friend of mine, tells me; you wont find *him* on sites like this, Anymore.
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Keep looking Rosa the right guy is out there somewhere !!!! Good luck to you in your quest !!!
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It is about two, two opposites who incorporate their roles to become one, if only for the moment. Communication is a foundation, trust the buttress, both give to fully receive. Understanding leading to a balance of the two.
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I get men who instantly presume that because THEY are in another country, I am automatically interested in going on Cam, or open to cyber orientated crap. Not my problem they don't have the balls to meet/contact someone on the same piece of land they reside on. Another real issue is the amount of men especially, those who have the privilige (aka a Gold Membership) who still choose to only use it to look at pics and not read the bit they are about to ask dumbarse questions about, the profile would answer for them if they bothered to read it and lead with presumptions on what you are interested in, like you said, you MUST be into this, you MUST be interested in their fantasy scenario. They have anonymity, and they can talk like real jerks because in their head, it will never come back at them in real life. If they walked upto you in a BDSM related bar and talked shit to you, you could do something about it, but not online. I once had a guy from Texas talk shit to me on IM, I blocked him. He then made another profile with the exact same photo and username (with a couple additional numbers) and contacted me again, again talking shit to me, I blocked that profile and what did he do, did he take the hint, NO, he made a 3rd account same photo, same username with minor number differences, and tried it a 3rd time. He did this on consequitive days, allowing for profile acceptance, but the point is, he was allowed to get away with it. Faceless, no effort profiles, really irritate me.
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 Slave rick
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A little respect.....thats all it takes
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most are like that on here. not to bad in the rest world. or they don't say it to often
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9/13/2020 8:06 pm |
Hang in there Rosa, there are one or two gems still to be found.
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rosa Sadly, there are too many men like this in general BUT especially on this site... A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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lancylad, Aah, that is soo sweet, thank you. 
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Sir_Rimpas, Yeah, well, for some, it is a role, not for all, sir. For others it s away of life, living, not a role. Thank you for your imput,
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BDSMbedroomslave, He, nice to see you again!  I totally understand you, it is so annoying!
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sub_nouveau, Yes, so much stupidity.. This looked liked something real, being sincere and showing feelings, act like he had a real interest in me, mé. not my body parts! So, i very carefull, very slowly, let some of my guard down, and BAM, there he comes with all kind of porn talk.... Wich was all about HIM, never about mé. It was: WTF! HELL! NO! NO!NOO! i cant help, but feel so sad, so terrible sad.. as such thing happens. sad and violated too. They (?) must really kick on sich a brutal behaviour. Must seriously lack some gene or something like that. Are not whole.
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NonServian, Sighs, people are strange. if she would be anything near sincere, she would have liked that... And, some need that kind of distance, no connection, at all. That could be very well be their normal. She should have made that very clear in the beginning. ( i know of such a person, she does not want a connection, just want to be used/r8ped) Or, indeed, it could become very nasty, very fast, for you ! It feels rotten, to be treated like that, if that is not your fetish!
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Thanks Slave rick,
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drmgirl, yes, that is all that it takes, plus, being genuine interested in the Other Person.
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bimom4taboo, They would never talk to me, in my face, like that. Dont have the courage for it, or balls!
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Kitkatshadow, I really, very strongly doubt that... At least, on sites like this, anyway.....
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jenny, On any SM related site, to be honest, it is the same on fet, although my profile text is such, that they leave me alone , now. But any other SM/kink(?) site, it is all the same... Even on vanilla dating sites those species roam around, hunting, being an ass! Because all those vanillas watch socalled sm/kink porn too.  amp;
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Thank you, all, for your encouraging words, and support, it means a lot to me!
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I long for a deep connection with someone in a kink-centred relationship, but most of the women I've connected with on here put up barriers and won't let me in, preferring something more superficial, which personally doesn't suit me at all. Or just see bdsm as a fantasy they want to talk about, but not actually do in real life. Fifty-shades syndrome I call it.
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dirty_biker, Yes, i understand you! Just want to use you as a fetish dispenser as they call it. You have to do, what they want and how they want it.. playing the kinky fuckery game, wham bam thankyousir. What that has to do with Dominance, is totally lost on me. That is a nice way of saying it, Fifty shades syndrome, i hope i am allowed to use that? And, also a totall lack of SM knowledge, if you ask them about subdrop, hard limits, stopwords, subspace... Or, the responisibilities of a Dominant? They explode on me! angry! beyond believe! Negotiation is also totally lost on them. Rights of a submissive? They really have nó cleu! I hope you will find that person who resonates with what you want and need. Maybe try other SM sites, or go to munches, meetings, when they will start again? To make friends and maybe... You will meet someone there, who you really like, too! Thank you for passing by,
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9/30/2020 2:32 pm |
One day without men. What would You do.
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PetersPen, What do you mean? You mean -vanilla men-? As on this site?  Just live my life, like i do now, too Most men around me, in daily life, are like white noise.... they are there...in the background, but dont have much meaning, at all. Sometimes, they are like disturbing bugs... so you make them leave *you* alone... Thats all. (is this the answer you assumed, to get?) 😁
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