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rosaenaluin 65F
10084 posts
8/18/2021 11:09 pm
Can someone be a slave, without a Master?


I am not talking about the porn version of a "slave"
I am also not talking about being a sex slave...

But, being slave, as part of my character traits, if you like...
Of, it is in my core...

The other day i did read this profile on FETLIFE.
That woman just said, i dont need experiment, i KNOW i am a slave, in a loving, caring adult M/s dynamic- relation.

I found it really refreshing, read her remarks...
I also understand, that get know your likes, dislikes and all that, you -need-? experiment...

The thing is, i did not found one man, so far, with whom i would like "experiment" with.
It is not about "having experiment" this, that and the other...
me, it is first about the connection, between that person and me.

And NOT about that he and i both like whips, or the belt, or heavy play...

I did "experiment" some things.... actions....

It has be both, i have , first, like him, as a person, like the way he thinks, and that he likes what i like.

i identify as slave, i am, in the right connection, submissive that one man.

Just the only sexual submission, for some hours, has no value for me...
There is no connection, fundament, build on...
Just play out the different fetishes....
not my style, desire

I am happy for those, who can find satisfaction in that.
Sometimes, i wish i could, too...
But, it is just not in me...

whipkeith3 68M
127 posts
8/19/2021 3:43 am

I agree, that if I have no feeling or trust in a person, I am not going get involved. I need a connection and trust before I want to feel their hand on me.
Good luck in your quest


marshamay 36F
5964 posts
8/19/2021 9:43 am

Well, there sure as hell seem to be enough masters without slaves, as my sometimes Master would say . Great post


rosaenaluin 65F
11010 posts
8/21/2021 12:36 am

marshamay,

AHahha, yes, i know those kind of "masters"- thanks, but no thank you.
Thank you,


rosaenaluin 65F
11010 posts
8/21/2021 12:39 am

ina_scent,

Yes, the friend stuff is maybe more easy to understand, as in a willingness to be friendly to anybody? In general.....

Or just the person YOU choose to be friendly with?


rosaenaluin 65F
11010 posts
8/21/2021 12:40 am

whipkeith,
Nice picture, "boots"
Thank you,



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