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Controle? sighs, Just an other thing a lot of men on here, i dont call them dominants. they have to prove that first. All they want is "controle" the submissive. She nééds to do this, she nééds to do that. if not! she will be punished = porn talk! it is very strange, In my eyes it is the submissive who controles herself, and decide to give over some controle, or all.... The amount of controle, over the things they discussed, before hand. A dom who wants to "controle" his submissve all day and night, needs a extra job. In my case, i, as a submissive decide to listen and obey him, in the things we both agreed on. I choose to follow his lead. MY submission is very active. pro active. I Not him. I decide, if he is trustworthy, he is reliable, he is an emotional stable person, who has his shit together. Who knows how to make wise decisions. Who will listen to my input and take that into account. Who can make my laugh, especially about myself. He, on the other hand, also will make the decision, if i fit his emotional needs and wants. On the whole relation. Not as some kinky fuck game playing. Unless we both negotiated that! As part of the whole dynamic, M/s. I crinche when i read ads where the "dominant" starts talking about "controling the submissve". I think, a lot of men, dont mean bad, but are soo full of all the porn shit they see, they lost track with reality. of life, of living a life... Of how to treat an other human being.... A dominant FIRST need to show he is able to controle himself, every time again, all day, every day. I love to hear your ideas about this. |
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I think, i think too much!  
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A dominant FIRST need to show he is able to controle himself, every time again, all day, every day. AMEN
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I had a prospective live in ask me what were my rules. I told her we had to meet first to decide that . They said What? I said we are all different You can get a dog to do tricks, but pretty much not a cat, or a fish or a bird... She said HUH? lol
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likeit, Yeah, they come in all shapes and forms, dont they! I know stories like that, too!
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tee_lee, thank you, 
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