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Why? ( Retorical qeustion.) And it hurts anyway!!  The ones who could answer this, wont read it, anyway, i believe.. think.... Or, even worst, wont recognize themselfs in it..... Why do some men do that? Why do they? I am NOT into mental masochism, degradation, humiliation. Or seem to have that inner need, that when i open up, very cautious, very slowly, very carefully. They seem to have that inner need, to hurt me....? Deep inside... Attacking my vulnerabilty Why? Knee jerk reaction? Because they cant handle emotions, or are afraid of their own emotions? Or, they themselves, lack any vulnerability? Are afraid of it. It all comes too close for comfort? Are there really só many psycho- sociopathes on here? If that is the case? RUN, and go in hiding, all of us, looking for a serious connection. At a certain moment in the contact, dominants too, have to show their vulnerability, too. Otherwise, it is useless to try to build some deep contact... You might as well are looking for a fetish dispenser/top/ sex kinky player. Honesty is key! Especially in "our" kind of dynamics/ relations, HONESTY the most important aspect of building trust. It hurts. I feel sad, because, i cant be anything but honest, to a man/dominant (?) master. Ofcourse, i dont tell any and everything, from the start... there need to be some common ground, first, one way or the other.... BUT, if they already tell lies, in that moment of the contact? Sick. Emotional retards. Lost cause. |
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Aah, well, at least, i found out, very early in the contact, that he is not worth a second thought. Sick and tired of all those vanilla game players!
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The hope of tomorrow diminishes the disappointment and pain of our present sorrow. “Tomorrow, tomorrow . . .” “Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”
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some need it to feel in power. good for you found out he was mot for you
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1/28/2022 8:00 am |
You just haven’t met a man who is compassionate and invested in you
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Unfortunately, there are many trials and tribulations until you find what fits best for you.
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1/28/2022 4:39 pm |
All men aren't like that, but a lot are and it's because they really aren't that bright. They immediately think submissive means easy pussy, and you have to remember the only real woman they've ever had contact with was their mom. they live in a fantasy world. just be nice and say a kind word then kick them in the balls.
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alwaysassertive, I know, the worst cases do come together on site like this, the garbage! Whahahaha, alright! That is some real great advise!  online, i, most of the time, just ignore them. But this one sounded sincere... alas....
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sucker, Wow, what a wise words... thank you,
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masterkenny, Well, in that case, this person forgot ONE very imporant part of that need to feel in"power"-  amp;i did NOT give consent to that behaviour. Just an other wannebee.
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Fun, Indeed, thank you.
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drmgirl, Aah, yeah, that.....  Sweet of you, to write those positive words, to me!  It is, i believe, also, a learning curve for me.
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