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rosaenaluin 65F
10132 posts
3/3/2022 12:13 am
Danger,


Breath play is, in his core, very dangerous.
Before you know it, you have created a brain damage!
Without you knowing it.

There are dominants/ Masters on FET, that say, some things need to be left alone,
The chance for life long damage is just too big.

Why should you wanne do that to your much loved and cherised submissive? slave?

Because, lets be frank, most men and women too, have no idea about the whole human body, were in the body lies wich organ and what kind of damage can you do to that organ!?
Hoow the nerves go, the lymphesystem, the blood vessels

Most just havent got a cleu!

In you neck, throat lies a lot of nerves and small bones too, blood vesels....

Which can get damaged, without you or the submissive notice it.
Only after the fact, they get all kind of scary symptoms....

Just like trigger points, almost every one, i ever spook to, about SM, have no idea what that means.
What the effect is on the body , in the long run

Do you, as a Dominant/ Master want to carry that kind of responsibility?
To damage your sub, for life?

Are you going to pay for her /his repair operations if that is even possible?
Are you going to pay for her/his life long physiotherapy?

Just because the look of it, on some horrible porn movie, looks soo terriible horny?

NO body ever thinks about THAT!
TOO horny to look straight!

SM, and BD are in potential dangerous actions.

Some, you just should not want to do.
Is my opinion.

rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
3/3/2022 12:18 am

I know, there seem to be ways, in wich you could do breaht play in a safe way
It all depends on how your grip on her/his throat is....
There is online info about that.

I know, the serious dominant, masters will educate themselves

The danger comes from all those players, who dont educate themselfs,
Just want to play act what they did see on some porn movie......

Totally 'forget that there is a whole bunch of people around that couple acting their way...


ridermantel 68M

3/3/2022 12:21 am

I never go near that. It is dangerous and I do not understand it.


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
3/3/2022 12:26 am

rider,
well, i can somehow, understand the attraction, for it, it is some kind of ultimate thing...
to give yourself over to his hands...

Breathplay is not on my list, either.
The dangers overrule the "pleasure" so to say.


ridermantel 68M

3/3/2022 12:36 am

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    rider,
    well, i can somehow, understand the attraction, for it, it is some kind of ultimate thing...
    to give yourself over to his hands...

    Breathplay is not on my list, either.
    The dangers overrule the "pleasure" so to say.
So glad to hear that rosa.


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
3/3/2022 3:13 am

no_unicorn,
Totally agree with you.
You both could not have known that fact about your vagus nerve.
Thank the Goddess for your alert Sadist - dom...
He did own his *shit*, so to say.


brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
3/3/2022 4:07 am

Not into choking but I do experience some exciting "breath play" while getting face-fucked by a DOM who won't let my mouth off his cock until he finishes... 💋♥️💋


tastetester61 62M
1785 posts
3/3/2022 4:35 am

    Quoting brandygirasol:
    Not into choking but I do experience some exciting "breath play" while getting face-fucked by a DOM who won't let my mouth off his cock until he finishes... 💋♥️💋
This is about as far as I go with breath play. It's controlled and quite exhilarating with the right person. And there in lies the crux, it has to be the right person, and no silly surprises here.


rondiri 65M
11185 posts
3/3/2022 6:01 am

Something I've never done, too easy to get carried away. Even if you know CPR, it's just too dangerous.


drmgirl622 68F  
26132 posts
3/3/2022 6:05 am

Breath play is definitely a hard limit for me!


pac369 64F  
12700 posts
3/3/2022 6:41 am

    Quoting  :

Wow no!
What a experience you shared...
Thanks so much for giving us your knowledge of
how dangerous breath play can be!

~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
3/3/2022 8:04 am

brandy,
yeah, face fucking when done in a safe way, is a great way to experience something like breath play...
Both must know, what they are doing... and how to do it safely.


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
3/3/2022 8:09 am

drmgirl, choking is for me, a hard limit.


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
3/3/2022 8:09 am

rondiri,
agree.


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
3/3/2022 8:12 am

no_unicorn,
That must have been a hell of a experience!
Thanks for sharing it with us.


brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
3/3/2022 8:45 am

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    brandy,
    yeah, face fucking when done in a safe way, is a great way to experience something like breath play...
    Both must know, what they are doing... and how to do it safely.
Rosa Dear the ways I've been face-fucked is the DOM holds my head controlling me and not letting me get away from his cock -but I actually could except I'm submitting to the agreed upon activity 👄 I know what the man wants from me LOVE IT💜💜💜💜💜


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
3/3/2022 10:47 am

brandy,


tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
3/3/2022 5:01 pm

Unless it's with someone with tremendous ability and experience, I stay away from breath control. And yet some live for it.


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
3/4/2022 12:55 am

no_unicorn,

Yes, when that dynamic starts between a D/ or sadist and the submissive, it can become a dangerous time.
There need to be ONE who keeps controle, all the time, no matter how big the competiveness, the hunger for more is....

It is never an EASY task, for a dominant/ sadist....master.....


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
3/4/2022 12:57 am

tahimi,
There are different stages of breath play, choking is just one, face fucking is an other one....
But Yeah, both people should really, really know what they are doing - most dont ,alas......


rosaenaluin 65F
11048 posts
3/4/2022 1:00 am

rider,
Well, now, if there would be talk about knifeplay???
I will be all ears!!
Bring it on!

It is about controled danger... Most dont have a cleu, about the dangers of SM/BD... and all the other variations!



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