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deactivated profiles? This happened a while a go. When, after those men did talk with me, about how i see SM/ D/s or M/s. They deactivated their profiles..... I find it rather funny/ strange?... and abit sad too. Because, in the conversation, it was very clear to me, they all talk fantasy sex life... Porn fantasy. or just want to be "safed" by a DOMINA, or domme..... DOnt want to have any active part in that connection. Or, maybe they are just lazy vanillas who want to please someone, with only those things, that they find exciting.... Or, the Domme, must learn them, all they want the man to do There is no pro active participation from those men Or at least, that is how they behave.... The Domme needs to do all the work, and they are just on the recieving end of it all. And, so, after our conversation, they delete their profile..... 
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Am i doing something wrong? I just tell them, how i think, about a D/s or a M/s... and the conseqences of that kind of dynamics, relations, for both persons.
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4/2/2022 7:12 am |
rosa, if they are asking those kinds of questions and then deactivating their profiles… they are just phishing. Beware the scammers! It could be one person running multiple profiles. Each different profile mines different information and pretty soon they’ve pieced together something about you that they use to hack you. Just my two cents.
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4/2/2022 7:15 am |
You being real and them thinking BDSM is some fantasy sex game, you scared them off. You probably made their dick go soft, so they had to run away with their tails between their legs and change their profile. The common denominator of these men with a fantasy sex mentality is that, "submissive women" means easy pussy. That's how they think, and that's what they want, easy pussy.
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rosa, if they are asking those kinds of questions and then deactivating their profiles… they are just phishing. Beware the scammers! It could be one person running multiple profiles. Each different profile mines different information and pretty soon they’ve pieced together something about you that they use to hack you. Just my two cents. Rosa: I suspect they were hoping for a sex chat. Or Ive also been contacted by “ dominants” with an hello and a How Are You? And then crickets. They’ve exhausted their conversational ability with that. Sad.
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alwaysassertive! Thank you!   I only ask them a hell lot of questions about how they see an SM/ D/ s relations. What they think, their share is in that relationship. How they see their own input in that relation. Oh, i think you are right, about the easy pussy attitude, of most men on here...
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Know_, I dont feed them info about me, or my preferences. I ask them a hell of a lot of questions, about how they see such a connection, How they see, their imput in that connection/ relation, Ask them, if they did read some serious informative books, and wich books? What they get out of those books. How they see, their "role"/  amp;Ask them, what their hard limits are, what they know about negotiations. If they did read some blogs, on here, and if they also read blogs of people of the other ORIENTATION. Not just collect wank fodder... etc...
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sadie, If they start the conversation in that style, i delete the conversation, inmediately! I dont feed them.
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pleaser, hmm, maybe that is true for you, but that is not writtin in stone, you know...? There are some very fine nuances possible.....
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For them to just disappear after some serious discussion is definitely a red flag. It's probably best that they deleted their profile.
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Rosa this place is chock full of BORN LOSERS 🤮
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A lot of those deactivations are done by Alt after the account is reported. Has happened to me a few times while I strung along a scammer just because I was bored.
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drmgirl, Very early in the conversation, i notice, that they really have totally no clue about such dynamic/ relation... Or, about who they are.... Just all talk/ fantasy. Cant handle the reality of, this being a RELATION, not some wank fodder game... That they have to take responsibility in all this, as their part of that dynamic... Be it the D or the s, in that dynamic... Aah, well... no harm done! 😁
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brandy, Yeah, such a pitty! For them, and "us"! too Have nothing to offer!
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rondiri, Oh? Really? I did not report those contacts, they just decided, that My WAY of SM, D/s, did not fit their.... ? fantasy, hornyness? Or something like that... maybe? I really dont know, dont care, either. it was just all talk, to me, any way. Those had no potential, at all.
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