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rosaenaluin 65F
10068 posts
4/17/2022 8:48 am
I agree,


I get that, as a reaction,on my blog, writings ....
It ends all conversation, even before it started.
It is like asking closed question:

Do you like the colour green?
The other person has only two options.
Yes,
Or
No....
It does not encourage any converstaion...

I rather had a reaction, wich told me, he agreed on some things, and others not so...
THEN we can talk...
That is inspiring, for me.
Tingles my brain...
And,
you all know, i hope by now, there is where it all starts.

invite me into a conversation...
I dont fall for the empty compliments, when you dont even know me.

People can be straight forward without being rude.

With such reactions i always wonder....
They want me, to do all the works??

Get real, it is a two way street!
you get, what you invest in it!!
Or not!

rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
4/17/2022 8:52 am

I hate lazy buggers!
What does that say, about his input, commitment... later on, if there ever wil be-a later on-....

Lazy buggers!
selling empty compliments.
It is all about THEM- not me....
i believe....


drmgirl622 68F  
26107 posts
4/17/2022 9:29 am

With those short answers it says you'd best find someone that can actually converse with you.


alwaysassertive 64M

4/17/2022 10:36 am

Okay you want a well earned compliment? Get in that kitchen and cook me a pizza. I wish you could cook me a pizza. You're just so far away, and besides who could compete with mr wood?
I hope things work out with him.
Who knows Maybe I'll be in Portugal one day when you're there. I know one person that lives there already.
Oh if I say something complementary. I mean it. I know women can see through that bullshit.
I always mean what I say. I stand on my words and If someone want's to question that. Then I say fuck'em. You can use that word also if you like. It works for me.


jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
4/17/2022 11:27 am

rosa

I agree with you

Start an intelligent conversation first! arouse my brain!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


rondiri 65M
11178 posts
4/17/2022 11:35 am

Open-ended questions get you the most in depth answers and keep the conversation flowing. When the answers are short, there's a good chance not everything is being told.


Artschoolgrad 47M
8707 posts
4/17/2022 11:43 am

bravo! well said.


jdmhab 71M
1234 posts
4/17/2022 2:43 pm

You gotta love those monosyllabic grunts.


likeithot19 62M
6054 posts
4/17/2022 4:55 pm

Me when you ask, Do you like the color green? ( If I am wanting to know you ), Do you realize in the spring ALL of the shades of green that come forth, it blows my mind, know what I mean? I answer you question, with a question. Do not ask either or questions, funny as it confuses many and actually cuts people off... Do you want this or that? rather what are you feeling... Those who say GET IN THE KITCHEN... are not that kind of artist... that answer works better when young is all I am saying


rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
4/17/2022 9:43 pm

drmgirl,

....Oh, i know, i know....
I just wondered, why.....
If "this" was there way of "communication", and what they think(😳😱)
they will archieve with it....
( overthinking things....)


rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
4/17/2022 9:53 pm

always,
NO! I am not interested in compliments, as a way to get into "my pussy".= empty
compliments.
Yuck!!
It is sooo cheap!

You have to know me, to know what is important for me, then you can make a real compliment.
The LOVE LANGUAGE TEST?

I dont make pizza, you can get real healthy food. 😊
Aah, yeah, Portugal.... 😍
That would be a real surprise, to meet you, there...


rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
4/17/2022 9:58 pm

jenny,
Your reaction made me happy!
Yes! That!!
Maybe i am too sensitive, in that way, but i experience empty compliments, Actually as a insult!


rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
4/17/2022 9:59 pm

rondiri,
Yeah, that could also be the case? !


rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
4/17/2022 9:59 pm

Arts,
😊, thank you.!


rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
4/17/2022 10:00 pm

tow,
good for you.


rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
4/17/2022 10:02 pm

jdmb,ab,
Ooh, boy! Hahaha! you made me laugh out loud!!
indeed, neanderthalers! 🤣😂


rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
4/17/2022 10:07 pm

likeithot,
Aah, yeah....all these yammy colours of green!
Always makes me so happy!
The sign, that finally live and warmth is coming back...

(i dont mind, to be directed to the kitchen, if, and when... you can fill in the blanks..? .😘)
= love language? 😚


rosaenaluin 65F
11006 posts
4/17/2022 10:14 pm

ryan,
Ooh, i love your reaction!!
Right on!
Thank you, for your lovely compliment.

Yeah, it is no rocket science! indeed!
Have a real great day, enjoy what ever you are doing!! 😉😊😉



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