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Dating, on "a regular" site? So, i did it. Took a first look on a vanilla site.... (they are all the same, only some are more expensive then others) See what is on the market, so to say.....  My expectation where already very, very low..... But, my god! Ofcourse, i can only see the male participants What a sorry lot! Just happy go lucky, not thinking about anything else then their next meal, or work day or... what ever..... "wanting to sit on the sofa and watch a movie", is some of their goals in life,.... Really? That are their life goals? Sure, sometimes it can be "nice" to watch a movie.... I dont have a TV, dont like watching the tele, at all.... This is just one example of their ads. Totall lack of any personal depth.... Untill now, i did not get any SM vibes off the ads i did read. No little hints, about power exchange/ D/s, 24/7, nothing. It is soo nice to be so very subtle, I know, i know, i believe most of you cant believe i am even able of being SUBTLE. But believe me, i can! Use some small trigger words, hints to SM/D/s is not thát different,. Until now, nothing! It is all; i want a sweet caring woman, to sit on the sofa at night... Right! I continue my research, and will keep you posted. 
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A song; Your mine favorite wast of time, Matt Bianco!  Fit this research!
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Rosa you are quite amusing this morning with your "research" ...Ha🤪
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brandy, Thank you!
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I tried some of those dating sites many years ago. The women I met were nice but that's it.....just nice 
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8/2/2022 9:16 am |
I have a theory that a person's musical taste can be an indicator of D/s inclination, even if they've never participated in it previously. So many songs can or are overtly power exchange related... Take the lyrics of Garth Brooks' "Shameless" Well I'm shameless when it comes to loving you I'd do anything you want me to I'd do anything at all And I'm standing here for all the world to see There ain't that much left of me That has very far to fall You know I'm not a man who has ever been Insecure about the world I've been living in I don't break easy, I have my pride But if you need to be satisfied I'm shameless, baby I don't have a prayer Anytime I see you standing there I go down upon my knees And I'm changing, I swore I'd never compromise But you convinced me otherwise I'll do anything you please You see in all my life I've never found What I couldn't resist, what I couldn't turn down I could walk away from anyone I ever knew But I can't walk away from you I have never let anything have this much Control over me Cause I worked too hard to call my life my own Yes I made myself a world And it worked so perfectly But it's your world now, I can't refuse I never had so much to lose I'm shameless, shameless You know it should be easy for a man who's strong To say he's sorry or admit when he's wrong I've never lost anything I ever missed But I've never been in love like this It's out of my hands I'm shameless, I don't have the power now But I don't want it anyhow So I've got to let it go I'm shameless, shameless as a man can be You can make a total fool of me I just wanted you to know I am shameless Shameless Shameless Good luck in your search!
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I gave up on vanilla dating sites. I can't go back to that now that my daughter is grown and on her own and I have the freedom once again to pursue the lifestyle.
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FleetingtThoughts, Yes a lot of song texts have somehow sometimes a bit of a kninky twist in them. That where the songs i liked most when i was a teenager.... Somehow they connected with something inside of me, not understanding what it was..... ( slow learner  )
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ron It is a terrible bore to read and look at those pictures of men, who really dont seem to know how to 'advertise' themself.... Or to know, what most women will find attractive..... Grinning like sheep! Why? Or attemp to sweet talk to you/ me. Again; Why? What is wrong or soo difficult to duplicate my profile name?? It iis a very sorry lot, ( just like most vanilla men, on here...) i must say... I understand your position, but on here it is almost the same..... The blogs are a nice way to connect...
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1 post 8/2/2022 2:05 pm |
I'm on pof and my profile is far from vanilla. I have had a few responses, some negative, others curious and one or two positive. You never know who's mind you will awaken.
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Acdm, I hear you. That is indeed my take on this, too.... I will see what will happen... Just exploring this 'regular' site...
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i never was on those sites mostly more bdsm ore sex dating .thats where i like to find my needs
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