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fulfilment Can be in many things. I like to help people, in all sorts of ways. It makes me happy, when i can be of help. no matter what. There is no hidden idea, behind it, of getting a reward, or trying to claim those people, to pressure them to do something back. Not at all. It is all givin out of free will. To me, surrender is also about fulfilment, it makes me happy to make him happy. When i see someone struggling with too many shopping bags, and no support to hold it all together, on their bikes, i give them, my elastic bands, to use, on thier bikes... ( i have enough of those bands) Also with this Chinese family, although i sometimes have the feeling she might use me....? A bit? I still help them. It is not on mé, that she uses me... That is totally on her. That does not impact me wanting to help her. I know, when things are becoming in more quiet waters, i will retrait a bit. It gives me pleasure to see someone else happy. Thát is my reward, IF you want to use that word To me, that word is not in to this, at all I dont help to get "a reward" Helping is my reward. That is also why i do love to be in a 24/7 Power exchange/ transfer, dynamic, relation Making his life easier, happier, is my reward, to see him happy, makes me feel fulfilled. To be able to do that for him, is my reward. Sure, i want other things from him. But that has nothing to do with my desire to give and help. I KNOW VANILLA PLAYERS WONT EVER BE ABLE TO UNDERSTAND THIS. And so be it. Since it has not one thing sexual about it, you cant get horny over this? So, what is the use of it? Kind of style of thinking.... When i behaved like this, in my vanilla relations, the men all got very scared. They felt like i was claiming them. It was all too overwhelming, to them. Did not recognise a thing, being vanilla wired. There is no one to blame, there is no blame that was just the fact of the relation. ~~~~~~ Today, was s ride from hell and back, with my Chinese friend, she ended up in the hospital, overnight, because of her kidneys, staying over by some other friend, A hell of a lot of stress. Taking charge in like 5 minutes to arrange everthing and get the help from the childeren too. BUT<we managed! And, hopefully she is ready to go home, tomorrow! fulfilment, in a D/s- M/s relation is such a great feeling... 
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Although it can have some sort of erotic charge, to be able to give that, the D what he wants, and needs, It is not a sexual thing, at all. It gives me a sense of power... although it is a not active kind of power.... fulfilment Like i hink, him being able to give this leadership and guidance to his slave, can give him a sense of power too. Maybe even have the same erotic charge too?
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Helping someone should never be about a reward.
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Rosa Dear I know you dont wish to get a reward 🏆...However you are such a very sweet person I am going to reward you anyway with a BIG HUG🤗♥️🤗
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deeds are stronger than words often and helping is one of the best gestures, agree with brandy a hug is in order
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charity comes from the heart w o anything expected in return! Karma comes in both good & bad as well you reap what you sow so nothing mostly but good comes to you!
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8/17/2022 6:58 pm |
You help because you want to help. A reward is simply an unexpected bonus.
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Very true
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drmgirl Exactly, 
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brandy, Aah, that is soo sweet of you!  On the other hand, my neighbours from hell, if she would get deadly sick, i would not reach out one finger! If she would fall to the ground, in front of me, i would step right over her. I tried to be nice, decent, and friendly, and she likes to abuse, manipulate people? Than you are on your own! For heavens sake, go to hell!   Thát is also a part of my character.  
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socalmale, Thank you, so much,
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rondiri, Read what i wrote under brandys comment, i am not a saint, at all. Thankyou.
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4faksake, Thank you,
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bdsmDOMdaddy, It is not out of charity that i want to make the D his life easier?!  you know? It is out of that connection, the feel of love, admiration even.....
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rider Yes, and that can be in very small things, too.
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Formature, Thank you,
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rosa You are a wonderful kind Lady and that is reward in itself! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Help is a beautiful thing, and I am so happy to hear that it is normal. As for exploitation... I cannot imagine that. In general, I thank you very much for your help. Anyone who takes advantage of you will come one day and regret it.
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