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A sequence: "vanilla" dating events.... I am, time and time again amazed about what those "white males" think they can get away with. Their entitlement..... just because..... it is stunning., at least to my world vision... or version? Há. This one, "wanted to share love with me"  I did think very hard about what that could mean, in vanilla talk... I could only come up, with him being a male, = s. e. x..... So being as blunt as i can be, i told him, i dont understand what that means. Do you mean, you want easy sex, without any connection, or shared responsibilties? So, that got him very angry! Calling me names and telling me, i need to go see a doctor?! HUH? Did i touch a nerve there? That was something, what always happened too, when i was in a conversation with those socalled "d" online. I asked sometimes blunt qeustions, i dont like beating about the bush Say it as it is. It was never to provoce them, just to get clear answers. Say what you mean, and mean what you say, kind of thing... And, time and time again, they exploded!! So, because of their reaction/ explotion, it became a way of "testing" how much "in controle" they really were. (outside the bedroom? ) How "domly" they were.... Time and time again they prove themself not worthy of using that title. Just vanillas taking on a role... a fantasy.... Not even tops. There is nothing wrong with being a good decent top, who does know his responsibilities, and cares for the wellbeing of his submissive. it is a role, played in a certain amount of time to benevit both participants. Nothing wrong there. Anyway, it was a real big surprise to read his answer... Huh? What did i do? WAHAHAHAHHA! Funny vanilla man. |
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I never learned to "read" all those socalled social behaviourism. I cant read that. I cant see the difference between saying; i like to see you again as a way to end a conversation without ever wanting to talk to me again, and i like to see you again, and really meaning it too. I am socially handicapted like that. That makes it very difficult to move in social circles... I also, cant dó such social "nice" talk, it is lost on me, or it gives me the itches. It feels soo fake, so not mé. I am a bad pretender. They speak a totall different language then i can "read".. makes me ackward in social situations... Thát, is, probably also one of the reasons i hate those "munches", because there it is all about socially "liking" EVERYBODY. YUCK! acting 'nice', without meaning one bit about it....
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Some of these guys think pussy is supposed to magically fall into their laps with virtually no effort on their part suuuuuuuuure you betcha...🤪
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9/13/2022 5:18 am |
i am sorry for what you en counted i do believe no matter what you are male female Dom sub switch that everyone deserves politeness. Many of the younger people on this site are fakes and many others have no understanding of the real dynamics.
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Sorry to hear that. like the way you handle it Slave rick
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Being honest is really the best policy.....
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no_unicorn, Thank you. I agree, manners or being clear, and open about that, is not that common anymore or so it seems.
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brandy Yes, for sure! Lazy buggers!  It wont work, that way! Not with me, anyway.
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bipantyboy, OOh, you are soo right, on all points. But, then again, everybody has his /her own version of the dynamics... So.. how are we going to handle thát? Without being judgemental? I dont have all the answers either....
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slave rick, Thank you, 
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drmgirl, Thank you. My bullshit detector is sometime running wild.. dont know when it ever will get a break! 
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sorry
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justcurios, Thank you, he did not have any impact on my life, then yesterdays news... if you know, what i mean.... 
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