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Wanting a relation? On this vanilla dating site, ALL men want to go on holiday with their new girlfriend, want to go see new places, bike in nature, do all kind of holidy like activities... Or so it seems... No one talks about the day to day living, no one talks about sharing your sorrows, pains and happyness with each other, ( does not matter if you live to gether or not) They all seem to think, a new relation is like an never ending holiday.... HUH? What? It is hard work, to keep a relation going. Especially when you, I, want a D/s beyond the bedroom the power dynamic, shift, what ever you want to call it.. He is in charge, thing. It amazes me, time and time again, when i read those profiles Ooh, and then the guys, not able to describe themselfs? Please go away! You have to have some idea about the world around you, your place in it, etc to have some sort of deeper conversation. If you want to talk about something else then how slow or fast the grass is growing? Or, what the neighbours are doing, and if they doing it "the right" way....  Dont you think? And this is a paying dating site, i dont want to think about the level of ... on 'for free' dating sites! Or? Am i too critical? Laughs!! |
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There is this thing, called first relation energy or something like that You know? When you love EVERYTHING about the other person, that New Relation Energy. BUT, that energy does not last.... and then what? You start an other and an other? Or you work your way through that New Relation Energy and start getting to really KNOW that other person..... Becaus of this (new?) energy thing, i dont like First dates. They make me extremely nervous. When i am at my third or fourth date, then i am becoming a bit more comfortable...
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Rosa Dear I learned to cut a swathe right through non serious "swingers" by requiring a phone number upfront serves as a nice weed eater clearing away all the BS on these sex date sites😎 .... Well at least this works out for me💋
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9/15/2022 4:16 am |
How true rosa, kids playing with no idea of the way! They say I have giant cock, look , look at me but do they know what they are doing? NO This is woman and men who play games with each other, yes I'm a MASTER. Big deal does he nurture and protect her, teach her no. The kid, who would be DOM fucks her punches her in the face and says get out, wow that's touch Dom. Sorry Rosa I have the shits while I write this.
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they are fluffy shallow & superficial relationships w no drama because they have insecurity issues & can’t handle lifes drama...well life & any kinda relationship has drama you can’t avoid it! D/s need each other feed off each other a sub needs daily control discipline guidance focus & a DOM needs to control!
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9/15/2022 5:52 am |
So true and I believe that real life always comes first
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I think it starts with those holiday times and then works it's way into the everyday.
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The question i have is how much info does one want to put out on these sites... Should one paint a picture of being with me will be a holiday, or say I want to be the pain in ur azz that won't go away and U wont regret?
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There are just as many women offering a lifetime of wild sex. Really? Is that all life and relationships are about. Enter reality.
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Just one humman being, one guy, who knows who he is. and what he wants. And knows how to get that/there. (with me) I dont believe in perfect, i know for sure, i am not! So, demanding, wanting that is children play, make believe fantasy. Just one guy who is honest, and means what he says and says what he means. I hear you, no_unicorn, i truely do! I understand what you are saying. Sometimes, i think it is totally useless..... But that is the winterdepression talking, that does not help either.... bleaugh. Thank you, i truely appreciate what you are saying.
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I agree with you, it is the words of adults, the old understands the big and the small remains small, and we always want to chat with each other, because there is experience in life that makes a mature person know what to do and work and good luck to all
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bdsmDOmdaddy, What you say! : A D wants controle, give guidance, etc... Living is NOT about holidays, and trips to god knows where. But daily life, create a good home, be content, with you, being you and all that...
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bipantyboy, Thank you.
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drmgirl You Do? Allright, i know, they say, go on a camping trip with a tent and all that, and that is THE test of your relation! Hahahah.
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likeithot That is a nice different way of make things clear, from the start.
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rondiri, And in the mean time, pretending to want/ offer a relation? Sighs...
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brandy, Thank you for your advise, i will see if i can use it, in some way or form, to fit me. 
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