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MY submission comes from within, That has nothing to do, with "fetishes", working out some sexual fantasies, being horny, roleplay. - Or, Taken on -A role- It is an inner want -/- Or maybe an NEED? to want to surrender to his will. Mind, body and soul. This is NOT about getting my rocks off This is about being *his*. Makes his life easier, service him, ( if you want to use that word...) Trying to fullfill his every wish, want and need. That is why being compatible, beyond the bedroom games, is sooo terrible important. That is why this person should need to take the time, to really, really get to know each other, first in "normal" day to day activities, and not just jump into the sex thing. It is from love, admiration, while you know, he is also human... Out of love, because he understand my mind, my slave mind, my core being. He is the only one who understands my core being, is able to give me, that, what i want? To give him, what he needs. Read that sentence, again, please. Not out of being horny and want to use that other person (f/m) to want a release, as long as you are horny. To me, it is some sort of artifical /superficial "connection", just to get your rocks off. Not my game YOUR MILAGE MAY VARY. But, that never runs deeper, the the scene at hand. This is my experience, this is what i have witnessed on "parties" and in contact with socalled "doms",  amp;This is about living it, day to day, worries, bills to pay, garden to tend to, washing to do, shopping to do, cooking, and everything else where he needs my assistance with. Following his lead, do things the way he wants it, how he wants it. (and, ofcourse, there will be SM in the bedroom, as a part of the whole dynamic) As part of the whole dynamic! Not hanging from the ceiling 24/7, naked, bound, gagged and all cavities filled, DUH! How boring!!  I never understood all the fuzz about the "playing" with this person and that person, It was all such a nervouw energy... whY? To me, that is just kinky fuckery, play time in the bedroom.... How about the Dynamic? The connection? The love and care, for each other? all day, every day? (not just when you are horny, after the last porn movie you watched) Almost every one seems to be deaf, for that word...... My submission comes from within, has not much to do, with what ever fetish. Sure, i have hard limits, I hope that my hard limits are the same as his. So, they wont be hard limits, anymore.  We will learn from each other, we will grow together. |
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MY submission comes from within. Has nothing to do with "experiences all kind of fetishes"... It is not "wanting to experience this, that and the other", with who ever is in, for that particulair fetish.game. It is all about the connection.
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agreed the ying-yang connection bond servitude love togetherness leads to play!
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11/3/2022 5:02 am |
We don't choose this way off the beaten path, it has chosen us. You can call it fate or destiny or even a curse. Most of us have tried to ignore it, but found that isn't possible. For us this isn't play or casual and least of all an alternative.
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BDSM requires some kind of relationship by it's very nature... No such thing as a quick fling with BDSM one of the reasons I prefer BDSM over vanilla type of dates for myself❤️ .... Just Saying... 💋
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A real connection with Mistress is what brings contentment.
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it seems that the proper play can take the intimacy between two people to new levels.
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boh, Hmm, maybe, it is not what i saw on parties or private gatherings, where i was invited.... Thank you for your reaction. I look at all this, from an other viewpoint....... 
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bdsmDOMdaddy, Well, maybe, day to day living, does not always leave time to play...? It is the power/ authority transfer that is the basic of the connection, not the play.
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brandy Well, then you never have seen things happening during a "play party", what i witnessed... They change faster from subs, then from their undies! I understand what you are saying,
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rondiri, Thanks, 
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hardtop4you, Thank you, You dó understand this! Readling these words, makes me feel calm, understood, at ease and makes me wanne cry too... May i use your words in an other medium, or in my diary? Giving the credits to you, ofcourse.
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drmgirl, Oh, i will believe that! for sure! And happy for the both of you, too!
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