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I did it, too... On fet, someone contacted me. He was fairly new to all this. I tried to help him, in finding his way, gave some advice, that works for most new people. First, about finding out, for himself what he wanted to archieve, what his goal was..? He kept coming back for more. That felt a bit like having a leech hanging onto my leg, or something. Also, he rejected all my advise on anything D/s or BDSM related. Did not bring anything to the mail exchange, except wanting others to do the work, for him!| I hate lazy buggers!! I felt drained... So, the one thing left for me to do, was ghost him. When i realised what i had done, i thought, there was no other way, To make him see, what he was doing. So, i did it, too! Out of self protection. Not because i got my kick out of the contact, got enough wank fodder, and moved on to an other sucker..... Like soo many men, on here, do! Especially when they dont get what they think, they have the right to, just because i am "A FEMALE"   amp;( when men use that word? you already know enough) and because i am on a site like this.... |
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Do i need to feel guilty, because i did, what i did? I feel sorry for him, not wanting to develop.... not willing to grow and learn.. Not willing or able to look at his own behaviour? And, ofcourse he will blame "the females", amp; for all that....
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There is only so much you can do, Rosa 
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you get ALL types in this world, communication from BOTH sides, consideration & compassion is important. He shouldn't blame females, he should blame himself
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Sounds to me like you were nice to him. He probably isn't good at relationships You have my respect
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Sometimes, no matter how good and helpful we want to be for others, we have to be good for ourselves first. No harm done in what you did, Rosa...
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Ghosting means you blocked him from further contact with yourself? ... 💋
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Ghosting means you blocked him from further contact with yourself? ... 💋 Even when the person being ghosted reaches out to re-initiate contact or gain closure, they’re met with silence.
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Do i need to feel guilty, because i did, what i did? I feel sorry for him, not wanting to develop.... not willing to grow and learn.. Not willing or able to look at his own behaviour? And, ofcourse he will blame "the females", amp; for all that....
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ExName, Thank you, 
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ianmidwest, This, the whole bdsm and d/s stuff is also, to me, a learning curve... He? not so much, i geus..... Some really think SM and d/s will solve all their (mental?) problems... It is NOT therapy!
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drmgirl I know, thank you, 
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casio Thank you,
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brandy No, i just did not react on him writing me, anymore Did not even block him. His behaviour felt like a leech to me....
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melt, agree with you!
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you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink...no reason you should feel guilty Rosa!
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sometimes guys need the roof to fall on their heads in order to know it's time to leave.
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Glad you ghosted him.. Sounds like he was living vicariously and just using your email as beat off fuel. Not worth your time
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bdsmd, Thank you!
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boh, that is a nice one! LOL Who knows? with this person.... Not my cup of tea anymore..
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likkesmatures, Yes, i think so too ! Did not hear anything back from him, i am alright with that!
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