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Alone? Lonely? Wich one is it? This neighbour of mine, she a single, and wants a man, very hard!! I mean, REALLY HARD! It is like some sort of hunt, for her...... She is, also totally not critical to what kind of geezer it is, as long as she is part of a couple, kind of thought...... Scary! Very scary, because she takes home to most gruelsome geezers Totall nut cases.... Rude, very misogynistic!! too.... But!,  Héy, it is a m.a.n...... you know?  amp;So, since she is very afraid to stay behind, be alone, the rest of her life, she cant handle that i am perfectly fine, by being on my own. There is this other neighbour, not a real smart woman, i must say... There is not much in the upstairs department.... Now, that other woman, who just can t be alone, wanted me to go visit this other woman>? Why?? I can not have any meaningfull or not so meaningfull conversation with her, what so ever.... Why, for crying out loud, would i want to spend an totall evening with her>>? Why? Anything that comes out of her mouth are assumptions, racism, and more of that kind of stupidity.... Nó, thank you ! Sure, living alone has it ups and downs, it is sometimes hard, not to have someone who you can share your thoughts, emotions, worrieis, humor with..... Yeah, that sucks sometimes...... It feels empty...... emotional, cold too...... I also know some socalled 'very happy couples', who could drink each others blood, so much do they hate each other, BUT, héy, they are part of a couple!! The most holy of holiness.. in relation land.... Bull shit! So, i am good. being alone...... Better be alone then terrible lonely in a relation, you hate his/ her guts... I like mé, i like my kind of humor, i like the way i care for my body, mind and soul, i like my ways of cooking, so no worries! 
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Nobody to hassle you, with gods knows what kind of stupidty... My music, my food, my time to do, what ever i want..... My rules. 
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When you make friends with yourself, you are never alone... the true 3 amigos, Me, Myself, and I... We go everywhere together!
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Rosa totally agreed it’s best to be by yourself then miserable w someone you don’t want to be w!
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I'm perfectly happy with the way I am.......
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rosa As so often, Well said! It is better to be alone than with people we don;t want to be with!! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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drmgirl, 😍🥰🙏 yes!
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picr, Sure, but, Not with just anybody, To not be alone anymore... Or, fulfil societys "nightmare- wet dream - ... 🤣😉, of having to be a part of a couple - otherwise you dont count.... in this society.... just a halve a person - the couple syndrome.... 😛 is a very bad choice.
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likeithot, thanks,
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bdsmd, thank you,
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Everybody has his or her own needs. Some people can't live with the thought to be alone. It's scary to them beyond any thought. While not a healthy condition, it's usually almost impossible to change that. Once someone gets set in their believes, it would require an earthquake of colossal proportions to change them. Personally I agree with your thoughts. I rather be alone than with someone I can't share my thoughts and feelings with, without feeling to burden them with it. But I think its human nature to long for someone you can be with and share the good and bad moments in life together.
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subaline, We agree! Yes, i too, long for a man, who understands my core being. Who accepts my rather strange background, without judging.... Accepts my survival drive, my hard, tough core... And, then, accepts and cherishes my inner needs, as a submissive/slave like, masochiste.....in Power Exchange/Transfer, as the basic of our dynamic..... You see, how difficult it looks to find just that ONE person? Wh fits my energy, like i fit his? I dont go play around with strangers, if i wanted sex, i can go to the local pub and dont mind what kind of moronic geezer puts his dick in me.....? NOT There has to be a connection FIRST. a DEEP understanding.
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Peter8, Yes, we all have needs, and wants, and need to learn the difference between those two. Understand your own core being, before you can make room for an other person, in your life. What do you have to offer that other person, what is your bare minimum, you want to accept from the other?? Same life goals, and all that? Basic values, basic morals and code of living. To name a view.
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