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rosaenaluin 65F
10190 posts
4/1/2023 2:21 pm
A 'dominant' of 23 years?


Just to call a number.. it also could have been 21...
You get my drift, dont you?

Is it possible to give yourself such a powerfull title, while still soo young?

Did you already get through the hassle of buying and maintaining a house?
The real grown- up responsibilities of living a adult life.

What kind of level of responsiblity do you, can you handle, in your own personal life?

did you have enough life experience to know, what you are dealing with?
Can you admit your mistakes, can you deal with anger, in an adult way, or sadness, to name a few....

Anyway, when i read such an young age, in a profile, of someone... calling himself dominant.....?
I most of the time just move on,
Or i laugh real loud, Sure!
sometimes i do read their profile, watch their pictures, and see who their friends are....

As soon as i see dick picks, i know enough... time to move on.
When i see only pictures of female genitaiia, i know enough too...

When their profile is only that horrible bdsm test = move on.

So?
it is possible to call yourself dominant, when you are so young?
To bé dominant?
To have the skills necessary to handle that amount of responsiblity?

I do, actually believe that is possible.

I mean, i 'know' enough older men, who are mentally not even 18 years of age, although their callendar age maybe 40 + or 50 +.......

It might be more a thing about life experience, in general.

But, i dont believe i will find someone here, or elsewere, who can match my life experiences....
To be honest...
So, that might not be the deal breaker, anyway....

It would, or could be 'nice', interesting to see what he stands for....in real life..

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/1/2023 2:25 pm

talk the talk and walk the walk, kind of thing, i guess...
Bé.


drmgirl622 68F  
26189 posts
4/1/2023 3:32 pm

I'm cautious of someone young claiming to be dominant.


likeithot19 62M
6112 posts
4/1/2023 3:32 pm

They got your attention.
Only dealing with whoever will you Know
Who else do you think can answer that question...
Can they be dominant for you...


boh99 68M
3172 posts
4/1/2023 9:41 pm

sometimes want to be and are is confusing. But I guess there's alot of information out now. Still, experience and mastery take time and practice.


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/1/2023 11:57 pm

drmgirl,
I know, i feel the same, but never the less..... It could be possible...i think...


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/2/2023 12:00 am

likeit,
No, you got that wrong,
I am not interested in such a big age gap....I think it would make me feel very conscious about that age gap...not comfortable, at all....

this was just a thought, after reading such a profile....


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/2/2023 12:02 am

boh,
That is what i meant, but, you know, we all had to start somewhere..?

I think, it might just be his intention, his will to learn and grow ( like every d or s type should want too, i believe... )


rydermantel 69M
25967 posts
4/2/2023 2:55 am

23 years, a person that age can be dominant, but are they a Dominant?


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/2/2023 4:56 am

ryder,
you tell me,


ExNameForUse 54F
5767 posts
4/2/2023 9:31 am

Not sure that 23 and capital D go together...


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/2/2023 1:32 pm

ExName,

I am not sure, either, but, a big but, when IT is in him...?
not some play fantasty game boy.. thing..

But someone who really feels this, inside him...?
it could be possible, i believe.

Like i believe that if i did meet a D when i was much younger, he would have got that out of me, too.....
Just really, really "see" me, touch the mé, who is hidden, deep inside of me, if you understand what i am saying......


Mssis 48F

4/3/2023 6:22 am

Yes, possible but highly unlikely.

How can a "D" be a "D" when they haven't lived or learned life? Are they able to care for themselves first? Job, home, manage bills, interact with society? I can't even list them all.
And then, control and guide a sub.


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/5/2023 5:31 am

Mssis,
Allright, you win!

There are people who did learned all that, very, very early on, you know,
some of us......



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