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rosaenaluin 65F
10188 posts
4/19/2023 10:03 am
Reading,


Is a passon for me.
I do it to learn, to relax, to have some body count, blood shed.......

This time i read a book, about building a M/s dynamic/ relation,

It is a great book
I learn with almost every page i turn...

His name is;

Jack Rinella, he is a Leather gay man.
I love his way of explaining, the basics of building such a loving dynamic.

He also mentioned, to NOT go to munches, partys, events.
Because there, you wont find any Master.

You only find those who play the game, no dominance. leadership qualities...
at all...

It was such a relief, to read that.
Because, that is what i was already thinking.
It was a acknowledgement of how i experienced those munches

Dont get me wrong, some munches, were not that bad.
I mean, some decent people, who were able to hold a conversation,
about something else then their genitalia/ porn fantasy, etc...

Who had a idea about how this world is doing, at the moment.
Who have some logical thoughts, about health, healthcare, childcare
and all the political games going on, worldwide ....

The real world, so to say.

Because, actually, the munches i have been going to.......
Nah......

Go to were the power is, is what he said.....
I am not even halfway, into his book.

I read every day, it is something i specially like to do, before going to sleep...

There are books, everywere, in my house, well, not in my shower, offcourse.

I always feel like a sponge, when reading, learning something new.
Makes me feel soo happy!

Keep using your brains, girls and boys!!

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/19/2023 10:05 am

Jack Rinella,

Partners in power
Living in kink releationships.

Greenery press.


ExNameForUse 54F
5767 posts
4/19/2023 10:22 am

Rosa, thank you for the recommendation. I shall try to find the pdf version to download and read... reading brings ease to my mind, soothe restlessness, and make me distance myself from everyday life and its distractions...


DancingDom 74M
22623 posts
4/19/2023 10:48 am

I met him many years ago. Have his books. He gave great lectures.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


drmgirl622 68F  
26200 posts
4/19/2023 12:48 pm

That sounds like a great book, Rosa!


boh99 68M
3172 posts
4/19/2023 9:51 pm

reading is a way of traveling and opening the mind


davinacambs 61T  
866 posts
4/20/2023 2:33 am

Morning Rosa

Was thinking about reading in the shower , and thought of audio-books or a text-reader with one of those waterproof Bluetooth speakers .......... it's unusual but a consideration.

D-J x


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/20/2023 11:44 am

Hello davina,
hahahah, what a spendid idea!
I wont do!
If you do this, please tell me, how it was?

I am a bit old fashioned, i like the feel of paper and the smell too...

I am always singing in the shower, try to remember the lyrics... or make my own....
That is always a joy to do!


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/20/2023 11:44 am

boh,
Yes, or traveling and escaping your own reality.. dream away....


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/20/2023 11:47 am

drmgirl
Thank you,
He goes very deep into the whole sexuality, the christian/judaism way of looking at sex, or sexuality, he goes way into history.

And als tells about his own struggle, with being gay and how he found his peace in that and his way, into the whole Leather community.

It is for sure a great, deep book.


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/20/2023 11:53 am

DD!
You did??
Wow, great, by reading this book, he comes across as a good person, who knows himself very well.
Understand the struggle for being gay, can give people bad feelings about themselfs.
Or for wanting to give pain to women, while the whole society teached you; dont hit women, even when they really, really wanted it....
All that kind of inner struggle.to find peace with... inside.... accept.....


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/20/2023 11:55 am

Exname
I sure hope you can find this book,

Yes, that does reading for me, too
It is also, sometimes a way to escape the here and now....
WHen i cant change that, in any way.....



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