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Subspace, I did read a lot about subspace. I thought i knew what to expect... NOT. It is what they say, or try to explain it... it is like a runners high, or when you use those funny sigarets.... A high, with the possibility of a very deep drop, when you are not aware of it. To handle that subdrop, you can practise selfcare by drinking some sweet substance Or some enery drink Take some chocolate, that seems to be thé thing, to take. Go to the gym, seems to work, for some, too... Self care is very important, even when the D type gives good after care. Subdrop can also starts days after the session.... They say, never leave a session, without giving yourself the time to come down. Because your mental state is altered. It is possible that you have some sort of black out, while driving a car.... Staying in contact with your D type can make it easier to handle the subdrop. Or being able to talk with other submissives, who know what to expect with subdrop, can be a good thing too. It shook me, very deeply, this subspace thing. Did not like one thing, about it. (also, the aftercare sucked very badly) I managed it, by myself. The next time, i had a scene, with an other d type, i did not want to go into subspace, at all. and i could controle that. Thát felt very good. he and i had some very good sessions, without subspace It is not the end of it, at all. I know, sometimes, some submissives make it some kind of game, to wánt to experience subspace. As if you are not a good submissive, when you dont go/ cant get into subspace...  Thát is their only goal, to have to archieve thát. As if that is the highest thing to archieve and maybe that is how that works, for them. It is something i am not really interested in, to archieve.. again.... Also, in a healty contact, this is mostly the end of the session. All depending on the level of trust and about what the two or more, did agree on. A good dominant helps you to get down, in a safe way. Takes good care of you.. And, if he has to leave, he stays in contact with you, keeps checking in on you. support you, untill you can hande it yourself again. Edge play can get you into subspace. That does not mean, that you NEED the same amount of edge play, everytime again. Thát is, in my eyes, not the goal at all. That is not how it works, for me. |
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Yeah, i dont know, what is going on, but Alt is not letting me put this down..., so tiresome..... I had some great advise.... never mind.
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Try again, Some dominants (?) have the need to put their submissive into subspace, because it rubs off on him, being able to archieve something mysterious like subspace... Makes him seem to be a góód dominant to be able to archieve that... To me, that is more a game kind of approach, i am not into that.. Keeping count... ? To me, it is about the connection, the feel together, to be able to see into his eyes, and see them shine, him being totally content.. Give my all. Thát is what this is about, in general..
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Being a sadist I have seen some extremes of sub space. Once you realize the sub space is basically self hypnosis. For people that have experience years and years of abuse sub space is that place they go while they wait for the abuse to end. Each person creates their own type of sub space. The most extreme I've experienced is the person that actually became a different persona, with a different name and all. I find that when I'm approached by a masochist that's wants training they are confused because they've been lead to believe that the way you become more masochistic is to increase the amount of pain they can tolerate. This misunderstanding is that the amount of pain a devout masochist can take isn't about their physical capacity but their mental capacity. I train their sub space to accept more than they thought possible. It is a long, slow process and I don't recommend you try it at home. It is very important for Dominants to understand that once a person enters sub space they are in a diminish mental capacity and cannot make decisions or give consent! For those that don't know what mental bondage is, do some research, it's interesting stuff.
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The intent with Mistress and I is not subspace rather satisfaction and if subspace happens it's the icing on the cake.
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drmgirl, Aah, great, that is how i see it, too. 
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uncommon, Thank you. I am soo glad, we are still somehow, somewhat civilised, (enough) to be able to agree to disagree... The brians make some chemicals, what gives the bodily reaction of subspace, like what happens with a runners high. Training? is a fetish. like watersports or punishment are, too
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