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Psychology? I read in a Psychology magazine, something about how you develop your own coping mechanism. In not a safe family life, and also in a safe family life...., Think about it..... How you onconsciously 'recognise' that specific thing, in the other. It is not a bad thing, to 'recognise' your own mechanism, in an other. As long as you are aware of these mechanism. They also talked about, it not being a bad thing. From those mechanism can grow a healthy relation. it is possible. It only makes things slightly difficult, to find "your man/woman" If you have more than average trust isses.... In our line of finding a D/s/bdsm partner, i think, it is a good thing. TO not trust everything dicktomandharry lies to you....  about..Also, those mechanism are not put in concrete. They can change, in life, you can learn to trust. and feel safe... You can get out of that old age coping/survival mechanism. Thinking about my lovers, partners i did recognise some patterns, for sure. |
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I also recognised their mechanisms too... it does not have to be a bad thing.....
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It's just an understanding of the individual that allows you to develop those mechanisms.
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Anything can change, if there is a will and awareness that something we do is not good not for us or for others. Learning about those patterns is one thing to do, ours and seeing them in others. So often we do not recognize red flags as such as they reminds us of our maybe childhood, they are familiar to us and they look like home to us. Learning and awareness is the way out.
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trust is the key Rosa I’m curious why you have other profiles on here?...that says you definitely have trust issues!
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bdsmdd, Trust is a two way street, Everyone on here, are just pixels on a screen, first. ...Especially some men.... No offence! I like to have different names on different sites. I dont have to explain that to anyone.
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Exname, I do agree. I do recognise this mechanism now, and from my past choices in partners...
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drmgirl, Thank you for your reaction.
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rosa I think it is so important and helpful to understand each other! It adds to the mental connection! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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jenny, Thát is thé core of the whole connection, i believe...
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ARE GOOD ALL THE COMENTS THAT THEY HAD MADE...!
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