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rosaenaluin 65F
10199 posts
7/17/2023 2:22 am
An appointment?


After a night of very deep, good sleep, i had a strange start...
I dont know how, it just felt like things were off....

So, later on, i was ready for my appointment, in the mean time, i was, again, cleaning out a lot of paper works...
In search of some recipes.. from some old spectacles... i still have lying around...
Could not find those recipes...
Did throw them out, already?

My phone ran, the appointment was canceled..
That made more time to clean out more and more......
It is especially paper works, that clog my bookshelfs..

Those actions are almost always very circulair, i start in that one cupboard....
make room, find other gems!
What i want to give away....
So, i make an nice pile of things, which needs to get out of the house...

I have already two piles, one for my and one for other goals....

So, this afternoon, i ll be riding my bike, with all kind of stuff that will make other people happy!
Give it away!!!
make room, in your house, in your energy field, in your heart.

rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
7/17/2023 2:25 am

I still have so much to clean out, move out, it sometimes gives me an out of breath feeling...
Then i take some days off, the whole actions...
and go on do, other nice, great things.....

ride my bike in the forest, always give me back my core feelings...


boh99 68M
3172 posts
7/17/2023 10:17 am

giving things away can be freeing.


drmgirl622 68F  
26179 posts
7/17/2023 10:57 am

I know exactly how you feel. I just got done collecting linens for the local Humane Society.


ExNameForUse 54F
5767 posts
7/17/2023 11:31 am

Clearance is such a good thing... in every way... making space not only for new ones but for the whole place to breathe... I love doing that, and there is always something I find then I left in a safe place and have never been able to find it again since then


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
7/17/2023 1:00 pm

boh,
it sure does.


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
7/17/2023 1:05 pm

ExNameForUse,

Ooh, that is really funny, great, you find those things back again.
That did not happen, here, yet???
I clean/ clear my house out, every year...
So, i dont have very much clutter, but stil enough stuff.. not used, just lying around...
Giving things away, is something very liberated, freeing, to me.
Feels soo good!


dryfte 69F
100 posts
7/17/2023 4:12 pm

Love your closing statement:

"make room in your house, in your energy field, in your heart."

A simple statement that puts it all in perspective -- nicely said.

"shaped by life, experiences, choices and one day by He who she will come to know as her Master"


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
7/18/2023 12:15 am

dryfte,
Aah, Thank you 😊🙏


hungaroboy 46M

8/7/2023 5:23 am

I don't clear out anything. Rather I don't buy something which I know I will never need. Be a responsible and knowledgeable buyer saves me from pushing piles of bought-but-never-used things from one side to another side of the apartment in order to collect dust but now from the other side of the apartment and not from the previous side where I had moved them.


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
8/7/2023 7:43 am

hungaroboy,
Thanks for visiting my blog,

That sounds real good.
A conscious buyer!! Mé too.

I am not a an impulse buyer, or collector of "stuff".
so it is just paperwork, that has been lying around, way too long, and clothes i cant wear anymore, since i lost a lot of weight, because of that corona thing...

And BOOKS< books< BOOKS... that is one thing, i have problems with..... to give them away, throw them out! .


hungaroboy 46M

8/7/2023 4:15 pm

I am happy that this site contains groups and blogs to see into other people's world. Good to read yours.

Oh, books are my weakness... I have alot on my shelves waiting to be read. In order to avoid to accumulate, I became a library goer. I love libraries from my childhood, that was/is in our culture to value and respect books and libraries.

In the extended family we exchange used clothes, or, if it is not suits to anyone, there are used-good shops too where they accepting them luckily as over there.


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
8/9/2023 10:20 pm

I buy most books second hand, i dont mind if they are not the latest, hottest book of the year.
I too, exchange clothes with my friends, family.
Give them a second life.
Or bring them to second hand, re used clothes shop.
I do buy new clothes, now and again.
But, mostly buy them second hand.

Yes, bdsm can be the core of your wishes, wants and all that.
Life in general has to fit in there, in the totall picture too.
All aspects of that one person.
there is a lot to consider.
Wich are hard limits, wants and on what are "you" willing to negotiate about?



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