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Checklist - This is something a D, Master wrote as an answer to a topic on FETLIFE. Alas, i did not wrote his name down. So, unfortunately, i cant give him credits for this great writing.... When someone recognise this, as a writing from his name, please, let me know? So, i can ask his permission and mention his name, ofcourse. This is about building a D/s as a relation based power dynamic. A, Do you want that level of responsibility over an other? B, Are you capable of taking on that level of responsibilityover an other? C, Are your intenions good? D, Are you willing to put in the effort needed to be sccessfull even though you arent sure what those might be? E, Are you willing to fail, accept that, and move on to make yourself better? F, Are you fully understanding their expectations and willing/ capable to meeting them? G, Have you fully disclosed your expectations and ensure they understand and accept them? It is a simbiosis. It is a leap of faith. Do No Harm. Write down, how you see yourself over 2 years from now, a normal day, if you were his slave and he your master. Define the M/s dynamic. Holding yourself responsible for your mistakes and fix them. ( This, ofcourse, count, in her own way, also for the s type.) the last sentence is of my hand and brain. 
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I read this list everytime i get some nasty, rude, stupid, no brainer 'message'.
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rosa This is a wonderful checklist! Thank you for sharing I think a sub could ask themself many of the same questions! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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thank you for this
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Good post. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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I agree, that is a good checklist - there's a responsibility inherent in a close relationship that takes two people to fulfill.
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What a good checklist.....
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jenny, I am glad you like it.  I think so, too.
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DLCXVI22, Youre welcome,
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DD, Thank you, I thought so, too
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boh, Open Commnication is key, even more in a D/s power dynamic, relation.
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Good questions for both to consider. Suggest that anything that comes up from answering the questions, be discussed between the two. If neither is interested in doing that, one might want to carefully re-evaluate and reconsider what they're getting into. "shaped by life, experiences, choices and one day by He who she will come to know as her Master"
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I like your "Checklist" that you have shared.
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dryfte, I totally agree with you.
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drmgirl, Thank you!
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riderman, Thank you,
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this is great. wish i had had this list long ago!
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Artschool, Thanks, Oh, me too!
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I'd call that a wonderful self-aware checklist... well done(to whomever wrote it)!
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BldBvrsareGr8, I thought too, thank you.
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