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Ooh, boy, You know? I really should not do this. Sometimes i get some writings in my inbox, on Fet, just because i am in some discussion groups. Not really thát active, and mostly US oriented.... The horror i read there, from subs with socalled d's..... shudders. There are sooo many men, on sites like this, it feels like there are more and more dangerous, narcistic? sociophatic, womenhaterd persons, with such big women issues, real deep wemen hatred. misogony. It is a wonder there are not more death from their abuse of women, mentally or physically... As far as we know, ofcourse..... Knowing, reading those items, makes me even more anxious to get active, in "the scene", again... Also,the things i hear from this younger couple, in Holland, makes me wanne puke, so disgusting. The way socalled ds treat their 'submissives'.... low morals, low ethics. |
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Wemen and men, really have no clue, what so ever. About the deeper layers of submission/dominance. They really, really think, it is something YOU DO, just need to learn the tricks, to bé a dominant, or submissive, and thats it.
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11/1/2023 7:00 am |
For some folk, it is what they do. For some folk, it is who they are. On all levels, people take from it what they need and want. In general, I have no issues with anyone in the lifestyle doing whatever is their kink, assuming all parties are consenting and educated. Not that I don't find some kinks personally abhorrent, but I make a distinction between that and something objectively wrong. That's not to say I don't avoid people I find unsafe. That's just a matter of self-preservation.
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I think there's so much anger in the world now.
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Wemen and men, really have no clue, what so ever. About the deeper layers of submission/dominance. They really, really think, it is something YOU DO, just need to learn the tricks, to bé a dominant, or submissive, and thats it. Some seem so removed from their partner that one has to wonder why either one took the time to even be with them. Sometimes trust and communication do not seem to even be in the vocabulary. Listening to some at the munches and play parties I have to just shake my head...... "The way so called ds treat their 'submissives'....low morals, low ethics." rosa.....just chalk it up as a sign of the times.....I guess due to our ages you and I see things a lot differently!
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Fleetingthoughts, Yes, i know, that difference. The thing that i dont like, is that they act, like "doing sm" is the ONLY way to go. That there are no other ways to fullfill your needs and wants, As my experience was in the dutch scene. It is all just sexual, nothing more to it. Most were scared to death by the idea that they first had to build a real deep connection...... rejected that by force! That was a sick way to want to experience sm/d/s Sure, a lot of folks, dó sm play, good for them. The majority does it.. that way, as far as i know, witnessed... Yes, the real dangerous things, or people i kept away from...There are alot of those!!
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boh, Or so it seem.... yes....
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melt, Hmm, maybe...... being, or calling yourself á dominant does not make you more or less human. Everyone is first a human being with morals, and ethics, i do hope so. Most just totally lost that part of their being and hide behind that title. Being dangerous, obnoxious, sick f... ladalaladalala ! my experience, for what i have seen in the Dutch scene, on parties, munches, play locations..
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