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It is all connected with each other, Having mental sickness in the family, wich runs down some generation. It is something that almost always skips a generation. So, we, the litter, dont have the mental condition, our "mother" had. Or maybe, our eldest sister has some sort of variation of it.....? Not sure. The of one of my sisters all have some sort of mental instability, that is related to the main condition of the "mother" figure. So has my daugther, that will always be something that will lay heavy on my conscious... So the best way, to tackle this; is not getting any , because the burden is soo heavy, for the in question and as a parent. By giving this to an other generation... Stop it here!! Strangely enough, my family dont think so! and breed on, as i did, when i did not know about this whole family thing.....  Dont even tell their , this is a family condition, you better not want to have ! Dont give the gene on! or something like that. Ofcourse, it is NOT a gene thing, but you get what i mean, I hope! It is all connected. I feel for my sisters , because they dont have a cleu, what is hittin them, once in a while.... Getting all out of controle.... Creating havoc. She does not want to talk about this, with her adult . I am all for open this up, in the family. Give them the knowledge, so they can choose, if they want to carry this burden, on.... Dont make it something, they have to feel guilt about.... To give birth, is not the ONE and ONLY purpose, goal in a womens life... 
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This is one other, big taboo. It always make people uncomfortable. As if this, is something they choose to have?? It is theirs to blame or something like that.... madness.
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I think all conditions, mental or physical, should be discussed with close family.
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yes, we always hope our children will exceed us, and it's heart breaking when it's not so.
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drmgirl, I agree, but for some people, family members it is easier to deney it, dont talk about it. The burden to talk about it, or the burden, to know, something is not as it suppose to be and dont know the background of it? What is the preference? Just an other taboo. It is nobodys fault, things like that, happen in a lot of families....
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boh, indeed, i agree.
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