Blog : Give and recieve,

10133 posts
11/19/2023 9:08 am

Give and recieve,

That is how i see, a twenty four, everyday, allday, power dynamic.

That does not mean, you are sitting on top of each other the whole day.

It just means, you both are totally aware of the other person, in your life.
You are totally aware of his and her needs and wants.

You are constantly and consciously busy with working on that goal
Making his life, easier, in all aspects.
In how he wants you to run his household, do his laundery,
cook and clean.
Because that is what this submissive slave also wants.
To be HIS, in al aspects.

Dress the way, he likes it.
Because your/ mine goals is to make him happy, on all levels of living,
caring.

As he is too, in regard to her wishes and wants.

In a very strange way, it has a totall different way of being equal, to each other,
from each others place in the dynamic.
This is what he longs for,
and this is what she is willing to give.

He is in power, has the authority, to decide on things ,they both agreed on,
as his field of decision making.
No discussion, no arguig.

He makes the rules, and she follow those
because that is what she agreed to do so.

Give and recieve.

You can not archieve this, within a forthnight
and when the contact starts as just a play time, waste time activity.
Whn the main activity is about having some adult fun, in the bedroom, only.

There needs to be a very strong build basis.
Of Trust, of Knowing each other, in all aspects of your life.
The good, the ugly and the bad.
You can not hold back, in such a dynamic.

And that is exactly the reason why this kind of dynamic is soo attractive to me.
To be able to truely open up, to let him see your all.
Be totally open and vulnerable in all your aspects of your life..

rosaenaluin 65F

11049 posts
11/19/2023 9:15 am

Ihave heard Dominant-Masters say that they especially craved the responsibility, the care and the guiding of this partner, slave, friend, lover.

Thát made them, feel whole...
It is in their core to care for a woman, in that way.

NOT because she is not able to do so herself
But because she longs for his guidance, his care and it brings her mind at ease, to not have to make all those decisions, anymore
that she can trust him, to make the right decision, for her for them, both.

Even, when it means, that she might not always likes his decision, she knows he made them, for the best, ( of both of them)

See?
How there is not one word about s.e.x or p.l.a.y?
In all this?
it is about the power structure, first.

the physical stuff will be talked about in a later time and place.

rydermantel 69M

25559 posts
11/19/2023 9:28 am

Permission given and what is agreed upon are important elements. An unconditional open dialogue is also important and required in any relationship I would think.